Child Relocation Legal Guidelines

Summary

If theres no formal custody agreement, you can move out of state with your child. However, its advisable to inform the other parent to avoid legal issues. Document your reasons for moving and notify the father in writing. If the father files for custody, Colorado retains jurisdiction, and you may need to return for court proceedings. Consult a family law attorney for personalized advice and to ensure a smooth transition.

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Rhiannon
Hi Rhiannon! Can you please provide some details about your legal issue and your location? This will help me give you the most accurate information.
I live in Colorado Springs, Colorado. I have a son with someone I am no longer in a relationship with. I am struggling to make ends meet here and would like to move out of state to Kansas where I have family, support, and a better chance of providing the life I dream of giving my kids. There is no type of custody or anything of that nature. Am I allowed to leave?
Hi Rhiannon! Given your situation, here's some general information regarding relocation with a child in Colorado:
- If there's no formal custody agreement, you technically have the right to move.
- It's advisable to inform the other parent of your intentions to avoid future legal complications.
- Consider consulting a family law attorney for personalized advice.
Do you have any specific concerns about informing the other parent or need help finding legal resources in your area?
I think my son's father is going to be very mad and tell me I can't go. Even though he does absolutely nothing to help me financially or physically with my son. My son is a way of controlling me since he can't on other ways since I left him. But I'm falling so behind, I can't even afford gas some days, I spend every day stressing, and I'm not being the mother I need to be because I can never relax and have a good time, I'm always stressed. I have to leave or I'm going to end up homeless
Rhiannon, it's important to prioritize your well-being and that of your son. Since there's no formal custody agreement, you have the right to move. However, it might be beneficial to:
- Document your reasons for moving.
- Notify the father in writing.
- Consider seeking legal advice to ensure a smooth transition.
Do you need assistance finding a family law attorney or more information on how to notify the father?
Yes. Can you please help me with what I should say to the father? In a legal way so he knows I know what I'm talking about and that I've talked with a lawyer, on the most professional way possible please. Also, I would like help finding a family law attorney please. A good one!
To inform the father, you can say:
"Dear [Father's Name],
I am writing to inform you that I plan to move to Kansas with our son. This decision is in the best interest of our child, as it will provide better support and opportunities for him. As there is no formal custody agreement in place, I have the legal right to relocate. I am open to discussing visitation arrangements to ensure you maintain a relationship with our son.
Sincerely,
Rhiannon"
For finding a family law attorney in Colorado Springs:

Colorado Springs Family Law Group


Phone: (*) *-*
Website: www.cspringsfamilylaw.com

Would you like any further assistance?
What if he files for custody while I am in Kansas?
If he files for custody while you're in Kansas:
- Colorado retains jurisdiction as the child's home state.
- He could request an emergency order preventing the move.
- You may need to return for court proceedings.
Consider consulting with a family law attorney in Colorado Springs for more detailed guidance. Do you need help finding more attorneys?