Custody Battle Defense Strategies

Summary

In a custody battle, gather evidence to counter accusations of neglect and abandonment. Use medical records, testimonies, and communication logs to demonstrate care and involvement. Text messages can prove attempts to ensure childrens appointments. Organize evidence by categorizing, creating a timeline, and labeling for clarity. Consider legal advice for presenting evidence effectively in court.

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Im in a custody battle with a family member. I left a toxic relationship of 8 years. I'm being accused of physical neglect, medical neglect, exposure to domestic violence and abandonment of the kids by the person who I gave permission to care for the kids. She filed for emergency custody & I complied by giving her everything she needed to care for them. What kind of evidence would I need to disprove the above accusations? And how would I defend myself against the abandonment accusation? I have messaged her about checking up on the kids
Evidence to Disprove Accusations:
- Physical Neglect:
- Medical records showing regular check-ups.
- Testimonies from teachers or caregivers.
- Photos or videos showing healthy living conditions.
- Medical Neglect:
- Records of medical appointments and treatments.
- Prescription records.
- Exposure to Domestic Violence:
- Police reports or restraining orders against the former partner.
- Witness testimonies.
- Abandonment:
- Copies of messages or emails showing regular contact and concern.
- Proof of providing financial support or other necessities.
Would you like more specific advice on gathering any of these pieces of evidence?
If the father refused to take the kids to their appointments, how would I be able to prove that? Can I use text messages?
Yes, text messages can be used as evidence. Here's how:
- Save text conversations: showing the father's refusal.
- Document missed appointments: by obtaining records from the healthcare provider.
- Witness statements: if anyone else was aware of the refusals.
Would you like more details on how to organize this evidence for court?
yes
To effectively organize your evidence for court, follow these steps:
- Categorize Evidence: Group your text messages, medical records, and witness statements by type of accusation.
- Create a Timeline: Chronologically arrange the evidence to show a consistent pattern.
- Label and Explain: Clearly label each piece of evidence and provide a brief explanation of its relevance.
Would you like advice on presenting this evidence in court?