Custody Concerns In Indiana

Summary

In Indiana, courts prioritize the best interests of the children in custody cases. If your children are safe and have a good relationship with your boyfriend and his family, its unlikely that your ex could take custody based solely on your occasional stays with your boyfriend. Document everything and consult a family law attorney to prepare for any potential custody disputes. Your exs refusal to discuss his residence change and comments about child support might indicate potential legal action. Positive relationships in your childrens lives can support your case in showing a stable and supportive environment.

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My kids are * and 14yrs old and I occasionally stay with my long term boyfriend that lives less than 10mins away. They are never left alone and always there with their 22yr old brother. Does my ex have grounds to take custody away from me for that reason?
Hi Renee! Generally, in Indiana, courts prioritize the best interest of the children. If your *-year-old is responsible and the children are safe, it’s unlikely that your ex could take custody based solely on you occasionally staying with your boyfriend. Has your ex expressed concerns or taken any legal action yet?
No but he is refusing to discuss his recent change in residence with me and says I will have to take him to court. I am assuming he plans to use my relationship as retaliation
Renee, it sounds like your ex is being uncooperative. Indiana courts will focus on the children's best interests. If your ex hasn't taken any legal action yet, it might be beneficial to document everything and consult with a family law attorney to prepare for any potential custody disputes.
Has your ex mentioned any specific concerns regarding your relationship or living arrangements?
No other than he states that he doesn’t think he should have to pay me more child support just so I can “live” with my boyfriend. His claims are false. I do not live with my boyfriend.
Renee, Indiana courts focus on the best interests of the children. Your ex's refusal to discuss his residence change and his comments about child support might indicate potential legal action. You might want to consult a family law attorney to discuss your situation and prepare for any court proceedings.
Is there any other specific concern you have regarding this situation?
Does it help that my kids have a good relationship with my boyfriend and his nephews
Renee, yes, it can help that your kids have a good relationship with your boyfriend and his nephews. Courts consider the overall well-being and positive relationships in the children's lives. This can support your case in showing that your kids are in a stable and supportive environment.
Is there anything else you'd like to know or any other concerns you have?