Visitation Schedule Dispute Resolution

Summary

Ex-husband is altering the visitation schedule without agreement, causing conflicts. Review the custody agreement to understand the terms, communicate concerns in writing, and document any deviations. If issues persist, consider seeking legal advice to enforce the agreement. Mediation may also be an option to resolve scheduling conflicts. Use non-threatening language to address the issue directly with your ex-husband, such as discussing the changes and reviewing the agreed schedule together.

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He has slowly been trying to overstep. For example, provided a summer schedule that gave him all weekends
It sounds like your ex-husband is not adhering to the agreed visitation schedule. Here are some steps you might consider:
- Review your custody agreement to ensure you understand the terms.
- Communicate your concerns to him in writing, emphasizing the agreed schedule.
- Document any deviations from the agreed schedule.
- If issues persist, consider seeking legal advice to enforce the agreement.
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He said he was trying to make the summer schedule where I wouldn’t have to travel for baseball. It still gave him majority of summer
It sounds like your ex-husband is making changes without proper agreement. Have you discussed this issue with him directly, or considered mediation to resolve the scheduling conflict?
The kids are teenagers and does not understand they don’t want to go back and forth. It that doesn’t mean they don’t want to be with me
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It sounds like your ex-husband is making unauthorized changes to the visitation schedule, which can be problematic. You may want to address this legally, especially if it's affecting your time with the children.
Have you tried discussing this with him directly, or considered mediation to resolve this issue?
What is non threatening verbiage to address it directly
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It seems you're dealing with a challenging situation regarding visitation schedules. Here are some non-threatening ways to address this directly with your ex-husband:
- "I noticed some changes in the visitation schedule. Can we discuss this to ensure it's in line with our agreement?"
- "I understand your intention, but can we review the agreed schedule together to avoid any confusion?"
- "Can we find a way to balance the schedule that works for both of us and the kids?"
Have you tried any of these approaches before?