Custody Agreement Timeline Clarification

Summary

A parent cannot unilaterally impose a custody agreement. In Virginia, the court considers the best interest of the child, including factors like parental involvement and financial contributions. Breastfeeding can influence custody decisions, potentially limiting overnight visits. Child support and visitation are separate legal issues. Document all interactions and gather evidence to support your case. Consult a family law attorney for personalized advice.

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I find it hard to believe a lawyer would use the language "* to * business days". First of all, is it 5 days or 7 days and a child is not a business transaction. I am trying to determine if my ex is lying to me about having a lawyer.
While it's not unusual for a legal professional to suggest a timeline, the language "* to * business days" is not definitive. It's important to have open, clear communication in these matters. You may request a written communication from the purported lawyer to validate their involvement.
That is a good idea. The father, who has not requested to see his child on a regular basis or pay child support, is claiming he is going to file for custody if I do not agree to his terms in * to * business days. .
It sounds like a challenging situation. In Virginia:
- A parent's failure to pay child support doesn't mean they automatically lose custody rights.
- There's no standard timeline for custody agreements.
- A parent can't unilaterally impose a custody agreement.
It may be beneficial to consult with a local family law attorney for guidance.
Yes, we are awating a consultation with a lawyer but they can not get us in until July. The father has had minimal involvement in the childs life. she is 11 months old. He rarely request to see her or is not paying support although we never had anything in writing. He has two other children that receive $* each every month
I understand your concerns. In Virginia, the court's primary concern is the best interest of the child. Factors considered include:
- Parent's involvement in the child's life
- Financial contributions to the child's upbringing
- Existing child support obligations
Remember, documentation can be essential in these cases.
Yes, we have all the documentation. I, the mother, requested no overnight visits until she is weaned as she is solely breastfeed. The father stated he was not paying child support until he gets her overnight; however, he has not even asked to see her during the day.
It seems like a complex situation. In Virginia, breastfeeding is taken into account in custody decisions. A court might limit overnight visitation if it disrupts breastfeeding schedule. However, child support and visitation are separate issues legally. It would be advisable to get legal representation as soon as possible.
We are but they can not see us until July. I am concerned what to do in the meantime.
In the meantime, gather all relevant documents and evidence to support your case. Make sure you document all interactions with the father. It's also advisable to inform him in writing that you're seeking legal counsel. Stay calm and focused on the best interest of your child.