Summary
In North Carolina, verbal visitation agreements can be problematic if one parent denies access. Courts consider a childs preference but prioritize their best interest. Formalizing visitation through a court order is advisable. Mediation is a cost-effective alternative to hiring a lawyer and can help resolve disputes amicably. Contact the North Carolina Dispute Resolution Commission for mediation services.Full Conversation
My ex and I do not have any visitation written just verbal and she's now not letting me see my children because one is very upset with me
What state are you currently residing in, ****? This will help me provide you with the most accurate information regarding child visitation rights.
North Carolina
What is the age of your children, ****? In North Carolina, a child's preference can be considered in custody matters if they are of sufficient age and discretion.
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In North Carolina, courts consider a child's preference at any age, but give more weight as they get older. Have you considered formalizing visitation through a court order?
Yes but what if my oldest son does not want to because he has built up resentment?
In North Carolina, a child's preference is considered but not decisive. The court's primary concern is the child's best interest. Have you tried family therapy to address the resentment?
This all just happened within the past week and I'm trying to figure out what avenue to go down and I know my oldest son and I need to discuss things and make changes
Have you considered seeking legal advice from a family law attorney to understand your rights and options better?
I would prefer not to get a lawyer
What is the main reason you're hesitant to hire a lawyer? It's important to know that a lawyer can help protect your rights and guide you through the legal process.
I have hired lawyers before in the past for my daughter when I was trying to get custody and spent $*,* and still got the standard visitation in North Carolina at that time which I could have walked in and got without hiring an lawyer
Have you considered mediation as an alternative to hiring a lawyer? It's a less adversarial and often cheaper method to resolve disputes.
How would one go about mediation?
To start mediation, you can:
- Contact a local mediation service provider
- Ask the court to refer you
- Hire a private mediator
In North Carolina, you can contact the North Carolina Dispute Resolution Commission for assistance.
Do you have their website?
Yes, you can visit the North Carolina Dispute Resolution Commission's website at www.ncdrc.gov.
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