Child Custody Mediation Tips

Clarify what i cant see rest of message?

So i wrote a whole thing of what has happened but idk if i could turn it into the judge to full explain everything or what for next hearing or what to say during mediation.

How exactly do i submit a statement? Ill send what i wrote down and please tell me if i should send it.

I have a lot of things to talk about and last hearing I feel that I wasn't saying things in the right place or properly due to being sleep deprived. I am not trying to keep my child away from his mother, which is obvious. I love my child and he needs his mom I still have love for her too. I'm just not in love with her anymore. She brought up communication last time and I brought up how it's been argumentative. Now recently it's been better but within the time before the last hearing. She was trying to stir the pot with my girlfriend Jasmin. Making threats and accusations. Now I have others counting on me for this case. Jordyns Nana, her mom, my dad. Because they know I'm a good dad. Jordyn knows I'm a great father. I love being a father but there's so much behind all of this all where Jordyn has just been in and out when she wants. Her mother had taken her time to write me a * page statement just to find out that I can't turn it into you. That statement explains everything and since i cant turn that in she asked me if i could request a zoom call somehow. Jordyn has laughed before the last hearing at sceenshots saying screenshots can't be used in court. Along with her stepmother that is stirring the pot. I can prove from the last hearing she has even lied to you your honor about her phone being off. It was off yes but until may 7th. Now I don't have the evidence with me but I do have the contact of who is paying for her phone that can state and get me proof if needed. That would be her nana which stated if needed we can call verizon for records of proof if necessary. Our hearing was the 31st. Also, the car crash she had mentioned on why she wasn't around... your honor this was all happening long before that and after. Jordyn has been super inconsistent without any cares. There's so much to talk about. My girlfriend jas who she is going to say she doesn't trust. She liked her plenty not that long ago. We have been her rides and everything with trying to have Jordyn see Jace. Even when we picked her up to visit she didn't seem to care much... she was just taking off and claim she couldn't handle it. Even behind her stepmother's back who is behind a lot of stuff due to this case. She would have me come and grab Jace early so she could run off to go see her boyfriends and have fun. Jordyn never liked her stepmother in all the yrs I was with her. Jordyns brother is with my first ex of * yrs. She didn't even want her daughter who I had been taken care of with her since * she didn't want her around her. Karen has been trying to find ways to team us against and take the children for herself. When me and Jordyn split up due to her getting in contact with her stepmother again and cheating on me. She had got into drugs hanging around with her brother. She actually had overdosed at her stepmother's house and was brought to the hospital. There was times I'd reach out to Jordyn to bring Jace to hospital with me as I don't drive and she had a vehicle I had paid the down payment for. She didn't help. I have been providing for Jace without a job without jordyns help now for some years. I do what I can to make ends meet. We had an agreement before we split whre I offered to find another job due to my job closing down. She wanted more hours and then she cheated on me with a coworker. I had tried to make it work for her for the kids sake. Her crash, she crashed her car and left the scene never reported it or anything. Around the same time we hit a deer. It was in November I remember cause I was trying to plan Thanksgiving. Jordyn always steals our son for all holidays. I barely ever get to spend holidays with our son. Even his birthday. She took him then after I was planning everything out for a big party with her Nana, stepmother, her there. She threw it away cause my girlfriend was going to be there. This scares me about getting a job too. Not just trying to work around her hours but! What if I work and I let my girlfriend watch my son nearby. I've filled out an application for low income housing in bangor with my girlfriend. We're just waiting. So if Jace is with my girlfriend waiting at their friends house that lives in bangor. I feel like jordyns going to have a huge problem with my girlfriend watching Jace. Yet I don't trust her stepmother at all and she's okay to watch Jace while jordyns at work and pick him up alone. I have never once refused Jace from his mother. Ever. Though her and her stepmother act as if I had. They're both beyond manipulative and it's all been a whole drama game. I'm tired of it all. So is her mom that has been supporting with sending her money from Ireland for years and her Nana. She barely even asks how her daughters doing with her Nana. Her and Karen just mentally abuse her daughter. Tell her that she has absolutely no say or anything. They won't even let me see her daughter now and I have been a father to that child since she was * and even kept her at my house after Jordyn and I split. I see her as my daughter still. She's very upset about this as am I. She is * now. She neglected her daughter pretty much with her Nana who had her for 6 months now and I've been here with Jace. She comes and goes as she pleases and recently I put a stop to her trying to walk around my father's house all through the rooms like she owns the place. Have even tried to get her to come and grab her stuff for a few yrs now and she's refused until recently at her stepmother's house. Still hasn't got the rest of her stuff. Also, when she lived with me she was hardly even at my house. She just cared about boys and riding around all night. She was never home. I would fight with her to stay with her daughter. She has attacked me over it in the past for me telling her I was going to tell the boy she was seeings mom what was really happening. Dhs had taken pics of my face where she tried to claw me. Her daughter doesn't even want to live with her that's staying with her Nana right now but doesn't know how to tell her mom. That's possibly another case coming soon between her and her Nana. Her Nana and mom don't get along with jordyns step-mom. Jordyns dad cheated on the step-mom and had Jordyn with another guy. Jordyn had been committing fraud... I recently had gone to dhhs to get Jace on food stamps Jordyn has been collecting for both children and hasn't even been around. She did it with taxes too. This yr she did send me some taxes for Jace to help. She's been playing victim and I've been doing nothing but trying to work things out and right this whole time. All Jordyn has cared about is partners, her phone and drugs. I've even tried to help her get into rehab. Which brings us back to her stepmother. Jordyn was refusing and looking for the easy route. Her stepmother knowing she could manipulate decided to take Jordyn in as jordyns grandmother had kicked her out of her house and Jordyn was here there and everywhere using. Jordyn still wants to be with me and claims we are married so on and so on. I have recordings of when I was just trying to keep it civil between us and about our son and she can't respect my new relationship. She's always trying to stir the pot. There was one incident I was going to drop off Jace to her and she was threatening to slash my girlfriends tires and make her run out of gas. It's all been a journey and it's so much it's tiring. Jordyn has been mentally abusive and physically. She'd hit me with stuff while trying to work on our relationship and everything and this is why I had kicked her out. I had enough. She was constantly seeing other men. Jordyn has told me and her mom she didn't want responsibility for either of her children. She has told me numerous times just take them and has even thought about suicide. She has anger problems and blames everybody else for everything and has talked about suicide over and over. I feel as if she doesn't care about boundaries. I don't feel any of this drama is needed for the children's sake. We all need to work together as a team. I am trying to just keep it civil truly and maybe it didn't come off as that during my last hearing but my anxiety, being thrown off by Jordyn there as she said she wasn't doing the phone call beforehand and being sleep deprived. I was having trouble. My brain just didn't want to function correctly. I just couldn't think of what I had wanted to say. She's also been trying to make me jealous with her new boyfriend that's in a motorcycle club and everything. Knowing my son loves motorcycles. I told her it doesn't bother me. I feel I'm telling her everything about our son because she just doesn't know because she hasn't been around much. Has even asked if he even knows her as his mom. I'm trying to get her to be a mom and have been. I feel she's only doing it now because she got served and her stepmother is making her as she's living under her roof. I have an idea Jordyn doesn't even want to be there. Jordyn being here there and everywhere. Who knows if she's even gonna stay there that long. Regardless of all that deep down, I remember how Jordyn used to be and I know that Jordyn does love Jace but at the same time I feel like she's not capable of taking care of Jace much alone. I have had our son Jace since the beginning me and Jordyn split in *. My father and girlfriend help me out with things I need for Jace as well. I make sure he has clothes, food, baths, makes it to his appointments etc. Jordyn before last hearing told me she was told she was told she could be a lawyer and good luck in bringing her to court. Jordyn was threatening me with court over and over to try and take Jace away from me. Even at one point said she'd make up saying I abused him. Another thing is I don't know if Jordyn is still into drugs. Her mom recommended having a hair test if possible due to her addiction to crack cocaine. She requested Jace for last court hearing, her family had told me I should refuse it. Again I don't refuse Jordyn as I was told I am not allowed even when she was on drugs. I'm asking for primary residence so I know she won't just take our son and take off. It's to have more trust with eachother and for the simple fact that I have had him since the beginning. She's also still using mine and her nanas address on stuff. She's still getting mail here.

Okay so can you type it out that way for me?

So should i add anything else?

How about her threats to my girlfriend. She mentioned we needed communication in last hearing but! She has been super argumentative over phone.

I just feel that what you wrote up doesnt include everything. Im so nervous.