Divorce And Financial Responsibilities

Summary

In Colorado, both spouses are typically responsible for debts incurred during the marriage, even if only one name is on the account. Document unpaid bills and inform the court of your financial situation. Consider seeking legal aid for assistance. For custody, courts prioritize the childs best interests, considering factors like parental relationships and stability. Present a strong case by demonstrating your involvement and providing evidence of a stable environment.

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If my ex husband has let bills lapse throughout our marriage, will I get in trouble for not helping pay bills during our divorce while living there and trying to get on my feet
Hi ****! To better understand your situation, are you currently living in the marital home and are the utilities or bills in your name?
Yes I’m living in the marital home. The electricity is in my name, but he will not give me the account information
Hi ****! Since you're living in the marital home and the electricity is in your name, you may still be responsible for the utility bills even if your ex-husband has let them lapse. It's essential to document everything and inform your divorce attorney about this issue. Have you consulted with a divorce attorney about this situation yet?
No I don’t have money for a lawyer
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****, in Colorado, both spouses are typically responsible for debts incurred during the marriage, even if only one spouse's name is on the account. It is important to:
- Document all unpaid bills and attempts to get information.
- Inform the court about your financial situation and inability to pay the bills.
Have you considered seeking legal aid or low-cost legal services for assistance with your divorce?
If my spouse and I are divorcing, and he is paying bills late, will the judge be upset if I don’t help him pay for bills and instead save up money to move out
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****, in Colorado, the court may consider your financial situation and the history of who usually paid the bills during your marriage. It's important to document your income, expenses, and any late payments made by your spouse.
Have you considered seeking assistance from local legal aid organizations to help you with your divorce case?
I don’t know of any local legal aid organizations
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****, here are some resources for legal aid in Colorado:
- Colorado Legal Services: Provides free legal assistance to low-income individuals.
- Metro Volunteer Lawyers: Offers pro bono legal services in the Denver Metro area.
Would you like more information on how to contact these organizations?
Yes
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Here is the contact information for legal aid organizations that can assist you:

Colorado Legal Services


Phone: (*) *-*
Website: www.coloradolegalservices.org

Metro Volunteer Lawyers


Phone: (*) *-*
Website: www.metrovolunteerlawyers.org
Feel free to reach out to them for assistance with your divorce case.
If my spouse and I financed a car together, and he makes more money than me and I can’t afford the full payment, will he be responsible still after the divorce?
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****, in Colorado, the responsibility for paying off jointly financed debt, like a car loan, will typically be determined during the divorce proceedings. The court will consider factors such as:
- Who is keeping the car.
- Each spouse's financial situation.
- Any agreements made during the divorce settlement.
Have you already filed for divorce, or are you in the process of doing so?
We already filed for divorce
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****, in Colorado, the division of jointly financed debts like a car loan will be determined during the divorce proceedings. The court will consider who is keeping the car, each spouse's financial situation, and any agreements made during the divorce settlement. Ensure you document all financial information and present it during the proceedings. If you need further assistance, consider reaching out to the legal aid organizations mentioned above.
How likely will a mom get full custody in Colorado if she asks
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****, in Colorado, courts prioritize the best interests of the child when determining custody. Factors the court will consider include:
- The child's relationship with each parent.
- Each parent's ability to provide for the child's needs.
- The child's adjustment to home, school, and community.
Would you like more specific information on how to present your case for full custody?
Yes
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****, to present a strong case for full custody, you should:
- Demonstrate your ability to provide a stable environment.
- Show your involvement in the child's daily life and activities.
- Provide evidence of the child's relationship with you and their adjustment to home, school, and community.
- Document any concerns about the other parent's ability to provide for the child's needs.
Would you like more detailed guidance on gathering and presenting this information?
Yes
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****, here is more detailed guidance on gathering and presenting information for full custody:
- Document your daily involvement in your child's life, including school activities, medical appointments, and extracurricular activities.
- Gather evidence of a stable home environment, such as a safe living space, regular routines, and support systems.
- Collect any communications that show your consistency and responsibility in caring for your child.
- If there are concerns about the other parent's ability to provide for the child's needs, gather relevant evidence, such as records of missed visits or inappropriate behavior.
Would you like additional assistance with any specific aspect of your custody case?
If my car has a lein on it, and I try to register it in Colorado, will I get in trouble
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****, having a lien on your car shouldn't prevent you from registering it in Colorado. However, you should ensure that the lienholder is aware of the registration and that you continue to meet your financial obligations. Is there any specific concern you have regarding registering your car with a lien?
I am behind on my car payments and the Lein holder wrote it off and sent it to collections
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****, being behind on car payments and having the loan sent to collections is a serious matter. Here are a few steps you can take:
- Contact the collections agency to discuss possible payment arrangements.
- Document all communications and keep records of payments.
- Consider speaking with a financial advisor for guidance.
Would you like more information on how to handle debt collections or any other aspect of your situation?
Can I still get the car registered
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****, since your car loan has been sent to collections, it may complicate the registration process. However, you can still try to register it. It's advisable to contact the DMV and the collections agency to understand any potential issues. Do you need specific steps or guidance on how to proceed with the DMV?
Yes
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****, here are some general steps you can follow to register your car with a lien and while it's in collections:
*. Contact the DMV: Explain your situation and ask what documents you need.
*. Talk to the collections agency: Confirm if they need to provide any documents for registration.
*. Gather necessary documents: Ensure you have your ID, title, insurance, and any documents from the collections agency.
Would you like more detailed steps on how to handle this with the DMV?
Yes
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****, here are more detailed steps to handle this with the DMV:
*. Contact the DMV: Visit or call the Colorado DMV to explain your situation and ask for a list of required documents.
*. Talk to the Collections Agency: Confirm if they need to provide any documents for the registration process.
*. Gather Necessary Documents: Ensure you have your ID, title, proof of insurance, and any relevant documents from the collections agency.
*. Prepare for Fees: Be ready to pay any registration fees or fines.
Would you like additional information on any specific step?
If my ex husband has admitted to intentionally manipulating me in order to get me confused, and thrown milk on me, and refusing to give me account information for bills that are in my name, is this considered abuse
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****, the behaviors you've described can be considered forms of emotional and financial abuse. In Colorado, abuse can include manipulation, controlling financial information, and physical actions like throwing objects.
Would you like more information on resources for dealing with abuse or how to document this for your divorce case?
Yes
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****, it might be a high-value case since you are experiencing emotional and financial abuse. Would you like to be connected to local lawyers who can better assist you with your case?
If yes, could you provide your phone number?
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****, since it seems like a high-value case, would you like to be connected to local lawyers who can better assist you with your case?
If yes, can you provide your zipcode?
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****, since it seems like a high-value case, would you like to be connected to local lawyers who can better assist you with your case?
If yes, could you provide your name?
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****, could you please provide your email address? This is optional but might be helpful for the lawyers to contact you.
****christyler@gmail.com
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****, it might be a high-value case since you are experiencing emotional and financial abuse. Would you like to be connected to local lawyers who can better assist you with your case?
What is your phone number?
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What if my ex tries to say that I abused him, but I didn’t
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****, if your ex tries to accuse you of abuse, it's important to:
- Gather evidence to prove your innocence (e.g., text messages, emails, witness statements).
- Document any instances of his abusive behavior towards you.
- Inform your lawyer about these accusations immediately.
Do you need guidance on how to start gathering evidence?
Yes
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****, here's how you can start gathering evidence:
- Document Communication: Save all text messages, emails, and voicemails.
- Witness Statements: Ask friends, family, or neighbors who have witnessed the behavior to write statements.
- Medical Records: If applicable, keep records of any medical treatment related to abusive incidents.
- Security Footage: If available, collect any video footage that might show interactions.
Would you like more detailed guidance on any of these steps?