Elder Care Living Arrangements

Summary

If your home is unsafe for your disabled mom, inform PACE and social workers. They should find alternative living arrangements to ensure her safety. If she refuses other options, PACE and social workers will work to find a safe solution, possibly involving court intervention. Adult Protective Services can also assist in ensuring her safety, even if she can make her own decisions.

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A elder care lawyer won’t help. I have talked to the nurses in pace and the social workers there to not let her come back
It seems like you have already taken significant steps by talking to the nurses and social workers. If your mom is still insisting on returning, you might need to explore legal options, such as:
- Guardianship: This could give you legal authority over her living arrangements.
- Protective Orders: In some cases, you might need a court order to prevent her from returning.
Would you like more information on how to proceed with these options?
I can’t get guardianship. If I told pace not to bring my mom back to my house for safety reasons and no one is to take care of her will they?
If you have informed PACE and social workers that your home is not safe for your mom and that you cannot care for her, they should work to find an alternative living arrangement for her. PACE is responsible for ensuring the safety and well-being of its participants. If you face resistance, consider contacting Adult Protective Services in Virginia for additional support.
Even if my mom can make her own decisions I can deny here here bc it’s not safe?
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Yes, you can deny having your mom return to your home if it is not safe for her. Informing PACE and social workers about the unsafe conditions is crucial. They are responsible for finding an appropriate and safe living arrangement for her.
If you have any more concerns or need further guidance, please let me know!
Will they keep her in the nursing home until they find another place
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They may keep her in the nursing home temporarily until an appropriate and safe alternative living arrangement is found. PACE and the nursing home staff will ideally work together to ensure her safety during this transition period.
If you have more questions or need further assistance, feel free to ask!
What if she refuse any other living arrangements
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If your mom refuses any other living arrangements, PACE and social workers will need to work closely with her to find a solution that ensures her safety. This may involve additional assessments and potentially seeking court intervention if her decisions put her at risk.
Have you considered discussing this with Adult Protective Services in Virginia for further assistance?
No bc I thought aps was for abuse and neglect
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Adult Protective Services (APS) in Virginia indeed deals with abuse, neglect, and exploitation, but they also assist with situations where a vulnerable adult's safety is at risk due to their living conditions. It might be helpful to contact them for additional support in your mom's case.
Would you like more information on how to contact APS in Virginia?
Even if she can make her own decisions
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Yes, even if your mom can make her own decisions, if her living conditions are unsafe, it is crucial to prioritize her safety. Adult Protective Services (APS) can help assess the situation and ensure she's in a safe environment.
Would you like more information on how to contact APS in Virginia?
I just want to know right now will they bring her back here after her rehab is done
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If you have clearly informed PACE and the social workers that your home is not safe for your mom and that you cannot care for her, they should work to find an alternative living arrangement. They should not bring her back to your home if it is deemed unsafe.
Would you like more information on how to contact APS in Virginia?