Handling Deceased Roommates Belongings

Summary

In California, personal property of a deceased person is typically managed by an executor or administrator. If none exists, certain family members have priority. Document all items given to avoid potential disputes. You have the right to ask the deceaseds children to come back at a more convenient time. Communicate respectfully and seek legal counsel if needed.

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My roommate just passed away, he did not have a will , and his children are asking for his wallet and things like that . Do I just hand it over ? I'm afraid they may make some kind of accusations later as I was not their favorite person. Thank you
Hello ****, I'm sorry for your loss. To provide accurate guidance, could you please share your location? Laws regarding personal property after death often vary by region.
Redding California
In California, you are not obligated to hand over your late roommate's belongings to his children. However, you are also not entitled to keep them. Here are the steps you should follow:
- Report the death to the county coroner.
- Notify the deceased's next of kin or executor if known.
If the deceased's property is under dispute, it's best to consult a probate attorney.
And thank you
In California:
- Personal property of a deceased person is typically handled by an executor or administrator of the estate.
- If none exists, certain family members have priority.
- Be sure to document all items given to avoid potential issues later.
That's what I was thinking , should I make a list and ask them to sign it ? But I'm afraid this might make them angry and I'm not wanting that. Its just that I'm in shock he's lived here for 10 years and these adult children are being a little greedy. They first asked if I knew where his gold coins are. I just want to protect myself and not be accused of something I would absolutely Not do like keeping something from them.
Keeping a list of items and getting it signed is a good idea, ****. It should protect you from any future accusations. If they refuse, you can document the refusal too. Remember, your main aim is to protect yourself legally.
Absolutely!! Also , dinu have the right to ask them to come back at another time ? I'm a little overwhelmed by all this at the momen
Yes, ****. You have the right to ask them to come back at a more convenient time. You're under no obligation to immediately deal with this situation, especially when you're processing the loss. Just ensure to communicate respectfully.
Of course !! Thank you so much for your advice !
You're welcome, ****! If you have any more questions or need further guidance, don't hesitate to reach out. Take care of yourself during this challenging time.
Thank you
Hello ****, I'm sorry you're going through this difficult time. Here are the steps you should follow in California:
- Report the death to the county coroner.
- Notify the deceased's next of kin or executor if known.
- Document all items given to avoid potential issues later.
- You have the right to ask them to come back at a more convenient time.
Always ensure to communicate respectfully, and seek legal counsel if needed.