Sibling Estate Dispute Resolution

Summary

In a situation where a sibling has taken control of parental affairs, including power of attorney and estate changes, you may have legal options. Consider exploring guardianship or conservatorship if a parent has dementia, and document any undue influence. Consulting with an elder law attorney can provide guidance on contesting the power of attorney and estate changes. Gathering medical records and evidence of undue influence is crucial. A second opinion from another attorney might offer different strategies. Informing your parents physicians about the situation can help document your mothers condition and any undue influence. Consider contacting the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys for further assistance.

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only sibling involved parents lives holidays dr appt hospitalization etc sisters never visited once in the hospital I made repairs on their house, stayed on top of their healthcare I always kept sisters abreast I was parentsPOA until mom * dad * sister got parents to revoke my POA grant her POA sister removed me from all accounts including parents online healthcare got them to disinherit me and cashed in all parents CD's annunitys bank accts and opened new acct hers and parents name acct owners. mom was getting dementia sister used to turn mother against me. sister refuses to communicate ANYTHING about parents affairs has even kept me from knowing about * hospitalizations. she ignores my attempts to communicate, refuses a mediator, family meeting I've emailed sister how cruel and evil her actions are no response her daughters boyfrnd is giving her legal advice.when our parents pass I know she wont tell me
It seems like a very challenging situation. You may want to consider:
- Guardianship/Conservatorship: If your mother has dementia, you might be able to contest your sister's POA by proving your mother's incapacity at the time of signing.
- Undue Influence: You could challenge the changes to the estate by proving undue influence.
- Legal Action: Consulting with an elder law attorney could provide specific actions based on your state's laws.
Would you like more information on any of these options?
Should I make my parents physicians aware
Yes, it may be beneficial to inform your parents' physicians about the situation, especially regarding your mother's dementia and the stress your sister is causing. This can help document her condition and any undue influence. Have you considered consulting an elder law attorney to discuss guardianship or conservatorship?
I spoke to one atty and he said I couldn't do anything until my parents pass
It sounds like a difficult situation. Since you mentioned your attorney advised waiting until your parents pass, you might still explore options like:
- Guardianship/Conservatorship: This could protect your parents' interests now.
- Documenting Undue Influence: Continue gathering evidence of your sister's actions.
- Consulting Another Attorney: Sometimes, a second opinion can offer different strategies.
Would you like more information on finding another attorney or understanding guardianship/conservatorship better?
If she got me disinherited and has full power of attorney I don't have any rights
If your parents' physicians are aware of your mother's dementia and the undue stress, it could support your case. You should consider gathering all medical records and any evidence of your sister's influence. Consulting another elder law attorney for a second opinion may also be beneficial. Would you like more information on finding an elder law attorney?
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You may want to contact another elder law attorney for a second opinion. It's important to gather all medical records and any evidence of undue influence.

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