Ex Fianc Loan Dispute

Summary

In Ohio, a written agreement is enforceable even without notarization. You can argue the money was a gift or that he owes you for living expenses and home improvements. Social Security benefits are generally protected from judgment creditors. Consult a lawyer for personalized advice.

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I’ll try to make this as short as possible I have an ex-fiancé wanting to take me to small claims court for $*. I did borrow the money from him and signed s paper but it was not notarized. I was seeing him for 18yrs and was engaged for the last six years; he was living with me the last three years at the time I borrowed from him. Over the last three years he was living with me he did some jupdates to my house in the amount of $12k-$13k. During these last 3yrs he didn’t make one house payment or utility bill. My only income is my SSN and the pension I did have was used on updates on my house before he moved in with me. (roof, new AC, waterproofing, etc. I have no savings. So what do I need to do? He has a lot of money….
Hello ****. To better assist you, I need to know your location. Different states have different laws about small claims and loans.
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Hello ****. It seems like your location was missing in your last response. Could you please provide it to assist you better?
I’m in Massillon, OH
Hello ****. In Ohio, a written agreement is enforceable even without notarization. However, you could argue:
*. The money was a gift, not a loan.
*. He owes you for living expenses and home improvements.
It's recommended to seek legal counsel to navigate this.
he actually texted me and told me it was not a gift and was a loan
Hello ****. Even if he says it was a loan via text, you can still argue:
*. He lived rent-free and didn't contribute to bills.
*. He owes you for the home improvements he made.
Remember, it's best to consult with a lawyer in this matter.
Don’t I have protection being a senior citizen and my only income is my SS ?
Hello ****. In Ohio, Social Security benefits are generally protected from judgment creditors. However, it's essential to separate them from other funds. Also, as a senior citizen, you might be eligible for free legal aid. Do consult a lawyer for your situation.
Thank you for your help. It’s a shame after all those years with him he just wants revenge…..pretty sad
Hello ****, I understand how difficult this is for you. Remember, it's important to seek legal counsel. In Ohio, there are free legal services for seniors. I encourage you to reach out to them for personalized assistance.