Grandparent Visitation Rights Enforcement

Summary

If a court order grants you visitation rights, your ex-husband must comply. Consider legal action to enforce or modify the order. Consult a solicitor for guidance. Document all interactions and communications regarding visitation attempts. Citizens Advice can provide additional support.

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I had guardianship of my grandson with my ex husband we broke up I left the rented home and he had guardianship of my grandson the court said he should make him available to me he played alot of games and was bitter and stopped me seeing my grandson but for over a year I have had him overnight on weekends and extra he has asked me to change dates to suit him which I always have but when I asked to change once he has now stopped me seeing him and my grandson is upset has he love them with me and has needs surely this can't be right
Hi ****, it sounds like a frustrating situation. Since you have a court order for visitation, your ex-husband is legally obligated to follow it. You might need to return to court to enforce the order or modify it. Have you considered seeking legal advice or mediation to resolve this?
He won't do mediation but I did get told a while back that if I send court papers to a solicitor they can write to him
Hi ****, I'm sorry to hear about the difficulties you are facing. Since mediation is not an option, you could indeed send a solicitor the court papers to formally communicate with your ex-husband. This might help in enforcing the visitation order.
Are you considering taking legal action to enforce or modify the visitation order through the court?
All I want is to see my grandson like I was has he is upset and i promised my grandson he will c me
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Hi ****, it seems like you're facing a tough situation. Since your ex-husband is not complying with the court order, legal action to enforce or modify the visitation order might be necessary. You might want to consult with a solicitor who can help you with this process. Would you like more information on how to proceed with legal action in Wales?
Yes I'm was thinking of telling my ex that it is illegal to do this and he his letting my grandson suffer through this he said he has new babysitters but it's not about him having a break it's about my contact but all he cares about is the pub
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Hi ****, it may indeed be beneficial to inform your ex that he is legally obligated to comply with the court order regarding your visitation rights. Here are some steps you can consider:
- Sending court papers to a solicitor to formally communicate with your ex-husband.
- Returning to court to enforce or modify the visitation order.
- Keeping a detailed record of all interactions and attempts to see your grandson.
Would you like more detailed information on how to proceed with legal action in Wales?
Yes please
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Hi ****, here are detailed steps you can consider for taking legal action in Wales:
- Consult a Solicitor: They can advise you on the best course of action and help with drafting formal communications.
- Return to Court: You may need to apply for a court order to enforce or modify your visitation rights.
- Document Interactions: Keep a detailed record of all communications and attempts to see your grandson.
Would you like more information on how to find a solicitor in your area?
I have spoken to citizens advice and have a appointment on the * of march but every week my grandson has to suffer has I have him every week over night and he gets excited about a Friday even the school day that's all he goes on about is time with me
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Hi ****, it's great that you have an appointment with Citizens Advice. In the meantime, you can start gathering all the documentation and evidence of your attempts to follow the court order. This will be helpful for your case.
Would you like more information on how to document your interactions effectively?
Yes please
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To document your interactions effectively, you can:
- Keep a Diary: Log all dates and times you've attempted to see your grandson and any communication with your ex-husband.
- Save Messages: Keep copies of all texts, emails, and letters exchanged.
- Witnesses: Note down any witnesses who can support your claims.
Would you like more help on any specific aspect of this process?
Ok should I email him and can u advice me what to put in the email
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Hi ****! Yes, you can email him, and here's a template you could use:
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Subject: Urgent: Compliance with Visitation Order
Dear [Ex-Husband's Name],
I hope this message finds you well. I am writing to discuss the current visitation arrangement for our grandson. As you are aware, the court has issued an order granting me visitation rights, which you are legally obligated to comply with.
Our grandson is greatly affected by this sudden change, and it is important for his well-being that we adhere to the agreed visitation schedule. I have always been flexible to accommodate your requests, and I kindly ask you to extend the same courtesy.
Please let me know if you would be willing to discuss this matter further or if there are any specific concerns you have that we can address together. If we cannot reach an agreement, I may have to seek legal action to enforce the visitation order.
Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.
Best regards,
****
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Would you like more help with anything else related to this issue?
Yes cause I asked to swap one day he said no but I'm in had to go somewhere then he said on day am I having him and I said no and explained I asked to swap then he stopped it and said his partners family where going to have him instead so he can go out but it's about my contact but he don't care about how it upsets my grandson
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Hi ****, it sounds like you're in a very challenging situation. Since you already have an appointment with Citizens Advice, it would be best to discuss these details with them. They can provide specific legal guidance tailored to your case.
Would you like any more information or assistance on any other aspect of this issue?
No thank you
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Hi ****, it seems like you've taken the right steps by consulting with Citizens Advice and documenting your interactions. I wish you all the best in resolving this matter for the well-being of your grandson. If you need any further assistance in the future, feel free to reach out.