Age Deception Legal Concerns

Summary

In Massachusetts, the legal age of consent is 16, so if all parties were above 18, it generally wouldnt matter from a legal perspective. However, university policies can vary. Rape by deceit typically refers to obtaining consent through fraudulent means, but age deception hasnt set a legal precedent in Massachusetts. Changing your birthdate on legal documents is uncommon and challenging, requiring a court order. Changing your legal name is more straightforward, involving a petition, fee, hearing, and publication in a newspaper. Seek legal counsel for personalized advice.

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Hello ****, how can I assist you with your legal issue today?
As an older student (30M) working as a resident advisor at a University I just moved out of state and am just trying to finish this degree and start a new life. I decided to tell everyone I was five years younger. I really didn’t want to get shamed for my age. I want to note that I constantly get that I look like I’m between the ages of *-*. Since September, I’ve hooked up with at least three residents (not my direct residents) in my building (ages *-*). I did not persuade them, nor manipulate them into doing anything. And they just kind of assumed I was * from what they heard. I made sure they were comfortable with what we were doing, never forced anything, etc. Now, not only do I feel extreme guilt, embarrassment and disgust, I’m very paranoid about any legal ratifications that may transpire due to me being immature, hormonal and not thinking clearly. I feel horrible…do I have anything to worry about, legally?
Hello ****, in order to provide you with the most accurate information, could you please let me know in which state or country you are currently residing?
Massachusetts
Hello ****, based on the information provided and assuming all parties were consenting adults, there doesn't seem to be any legal issues. However, there may be complications based on your university's policy about relationships between staff and students. I would recommend reviewing your university's code of conduct.
Couldn’t my situation be considered rape by deceit or fraud?
In Massachusetts, there hasn't been a case setting a precedent for rape by deceit based on age deception. Consent typically focuses on the act, not the characteristics of the person. However, each case is unique. Consider seeking legal advice.
But if both parties were above the age of * would it matter?
In Massachusetts, the legal age of consent is *, so if all parties were above *, it generally wouldn't matter from a legal perspective. However, university policies can vary. It's crucial to understand your institution's rules.
Ok, thank you.
You're welcome, ****. If you have any other questions or need further clarification, feel free to ask. Always here to help.
Thank you
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What does Rape by deceit based on age deception mean?
"Rape by deceit" or "rape by fraud" typically refers to instances where a person obtains another's consent to engage in sexual activity through fraudulent means. "Age deception" would refer to lying about one's age as the fraudulent method. However, laws on this vary significantly based on location.
So what would that mean in my case?
In your case, ****, since all parties were above the legal age of consent in Massachusetts (*), and age deception doesn't typically factor into consent, it's unlikely to be considered rape by deceit. However, every case is unique, and this doesn't substitute professional legal advice.
Ok, thank you.
You're welcome, ****. If you have any other questions or need further clarification, feel free to ask. Always here to help.
Is there a way to legally change my birthday?
****, are you seeking to change your birthdate on legal documents such as your driver's license or passport? If so, this process generally involves a court order. The exact procedures may vary based on your current location. Could you share where you're currently residing?
Massachusetts
In Massachusetts, you can petition for a change of birth date by providing compelling evidence to the court. However, this process is uncommon and may be challenging. It's advisable to seek legal counsel.
How difficult is it to change your legal name?
In Massachusetts, changing your legal name is generally straightforward. You need to:
- File a name change petition in Probate and Family Court.
- Pay the filing fee.
- Attend a hearing.
- If granted, publish the name change in a newspaper.
However, it's advised to consult a legal professional.