Sexual Consent Legalities Explained

Summary

In Norway and the Philippines, the age of consent is 16. Sexual acts with minors under this age are illegal. If the adult is in a position of trust, it can be considered abuse of power. Sending flirtatious messages is generally not illegal but can have ethical and social repercussions, especially if unwanted or harassing.

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What can I do if I, *, have had done sexual acts with a 45 year old man back when I was *? Has he committed any crime?
Hi ****! In Norway, the age of sexual consent is *. However, if the adult was in a position of trust or authority over you, it could be considered an abuse of power, which is a criminal offense.
To better understand your situation, was the *-year-old in a position of authority or trust over you at the time?
How about in the Philippines? What is the age of consent?
In the Philippines, the age of consent is 16 years old. However, any sexual acts with minors under * by adults in positions of trust, authority, or influence can still be considered statutory rape or child abuse.
Is the *-year-old man in a position of authority or trust over you?
What does that mean? He worked for my father as a carpenter. He worked in our house. I initiated cause I was young and naive. He then followed me to a room and he let me do oral sex.
Based on your description, it seems that the *-year-old man may not have been in a position of authority or trust over you, as he was a carpenter working for your father. However, given that you were * and he was significantly older, and considering the possible power dynamics and your admission of naivety, this could potentially be a complex situation.
In Norway:
- The age of consent is *.
- If the adult is in a position of trust or authority, it can be considered an abuse of power.
In the Philippines:
- The age of consent is also *.
- Sexual acts with minors under * by adults in positions of trust, authority, or influence can be considered statutory rape or child abuse.
Given the nuances, it may be helpful to consult a legal professional to explore whether any local laws or additional factors apply to your situation.
Would you like assistance in finding legal counsel or more information on specific laws?
What if I was *?
In Norway, if you were *, engaging in sexual acts with an older adult would be illegal as the age of consent is *. The adult could face charges for sexual acts with a minor.
In the Philippines, the age of consent is also *, and engaging in sexual acts with a *-year-old would be considered statutory rape or child abuse.
Would you like more details on potential legal actions or assistance in finding legal counsel?
Would it lessen the sincerity if I have done something similar to a 25 year old man when I was * and a 19 year old when I was *?
In Norway, engaging in sexual acts with someone under the age of consent (*) is illegal, regardless of whether you initiated it. The other party could face serious legal consequences. The same applies in the Philippines, where the age of consent is also *.
Would you like to know more about your rights or possible legal actions in such scenarios?
What if now that I am *, I sent some flirtatious messages to the *-year old (now *) who has a wife and kids? Am I doing something illegal?
Sending flirtatious messages is generally not illegal, but it could have social and ethical implications. However, if the messages are unwanted or harassing, it could potentially fall under harassment laws in Norway.
Would you like more information on harassment laws in Norway?
What if he responds in a flirtatious way too? He even calls back to see me.
If the *-year-old man responds flirtatiously and attempts to meet you, it could potentially lead to complications, particularly if his spouse becomes aware or if the communication becomes unwanted or harassing. Here’s a brief overview:
- Norway Harassment Laws: Unwanted or repeated flirtatious behavior can be considered harassment.
- Ethical Considerations: Engaging with a married person can have personal and social repercussions.
Would you like more specific information on harassment laws in Norway or advice on how to handle this situation?
What if his wife finds out?
If his wife finds out, it could lead to significant personal and social repercussions for both of you. While sending flirtatious messages isn't illegal, it can have serious ethical and relational consequences. If the communication becomes unwanted or harassing, it might fall under harassment laws.
Would you like more specific information on handling this situation or understanding potential legal implications?