Title Ix Investigation Guidance

Summary

Title IX investigations focus on consent and cooperation. Gather evidence supporting mutual agreement and engage with the Title IX office. Consider consulting a legal expert in Title IX cases to ensure your rights are protected.

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I had a girl over in my dorm. We cuddled and talked. I asked if she wanted to have sex. She said no, so I put the condom away. Then she changed her mind, said “fine,” took off her pants, and helped me put the condom on. We had sex with a condom. Afterward, I noticed it leaked a little, so I got worried and asked her if she was having an HSV outbreak. She said no. I washed up. Later, she had a breakdown, so I stopped everything and drove her home safely. At no point did I force her. She agreed and participated in every step. Afterward, she still messaged me — asking me for money and to meet at McDonald’s. I’ve already told my side honestly in writing to the Title IX office. I didn’t pressure her. I respected her boundaries. I cared about her safety.
It sounds like you're involved in a Title IX investigation, which can be complex. Here are some key points to consider:
- Consent is central. Ensure you have any messages or evidence that supports mutual agreement.
- Engage with the Title IX office cooperatively and provide all requested information.
- Consider seeking advice from a legal expert in Title IX cases or campus policies to ensure your rights are protected.
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