Trustee Communication Guidelines

Summary

Sending a letter to a beneficiarys attorney is appropriate to establish formal communication channels. Ensure the letter is professional and outlines concerns clearly. Sending similar letters to unrepresented beneficiaries can be appropriate if done professionally. Avoid sending letters that escalate conflicts or contain threatening language. If harassment continues, consider legal action or restraining orders, ensuring behavior is documented.

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just want to make sure it is appropriate to send a letter to attorney representing beneficiary, stating that communication needs to go through their office and if beneficiary pattern of communication continues i will deal with it through alterntive channels. as a trustee /beneficiary, thru the administration this beneficiary has insulted, accused, libeled, and harrased consistently via text, and recently a voicemail that also stated they would be meeting with me -without attorney- on a specific dates to discuss the trust. the date is before the pending court date - of which they are aware.
Hey Ava, it sounds like you're dealing with a challenging situation. Sending a letter to the beneficiary's attorney is appropriate if you want to establish formal communication channels. Ensure the letter is clear, professional, and outlines your concerns.
Here are some points to consider including in your letter:
- Clearly state your request for all communication to go through the attorney.
- Mention specific instances of harassment or inappropriate communication.
- Indicate your intent to pursue alternative actions if the behavior continues.
- Keep it professional and factual, avoiding emotional language.
If you feel threatened or the harassment persists, legal action or restraining orders might be worth considering. Do you want more information on that?
i want to know if this is appropriate to send their attorney-
Hi Ava! Yes, sending a letter to the beneficiary's attorney is appropriate in this situation. Make sure it's professional, outlines your concerns clearly, and requests that all communications go through the attorney. If harassment continues, consider legal action. Would you like details on pursuing restraining orders or other legal options?
is it appropriate to send similar to other beneficiaries without attorney representation?
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Ava, sending a similar letter to other beneficiaries who aren't represented by an attorney can be appropriate, but ensure it's professional and factual. If harassment persists from them as well, you might consider addressing it through legal channels. Let me know if you need more information on legal options!
can be appropriate-- when is it not?
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Ava, sending a letter is not appropriate if it escalates conflicts or if there's a risk of damaging relationships without resolving issues. It shouldn't be sent if it contains threatening language or lacks clarity. Ensure communications remain factual and professional to avoid unintended consequences.
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Ava, it seems you're handling a delicate trustee/beneficiary situation. Your approach to addressing communication issues through attorneys is appropriate. If harassment continues and you're considering legal options like restraining orders, ensure the behavior is documented. If you need more specific guidance, feel free to ask!