Modifying Protective Order Pregnancy

Summary

The user is a pregnant woman in Connecticut who was involved in a dual arrest for a domestic violence incident and a full no contact protective order is in place. She is considering modifying the protective order due to her pregnancy and the potential involvement of the father. She is also a college student and a resident assistant, and is concerned about her housing situation after the birth of her child. She is required to undergo mental health counseling services for six months. She has concerns about how this situation might impact her legal record or reputation.

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Lulu
Nice to meet you, Lulu. Could you please describe the legal issue you're facing?
I was in a dual arrest for a domestic violence incident. there was a dual protective order put into place. however, a few weeks later i found out i was pregnant with the other parties baby
What state are you located in, Lulu? This will help me provide the most accurate information regarding your situation.
CT
What actions have you taken since you found out about your pregnancy?

In Connecticut, you can request a modification of the protective order due to significant changes in circumstances.
what kind of actions can i take
You can consider contacting the court to request a modification of the protective order due to your pregnancy. Would you like the contact details of the nearest court in Connecticut?
what are the cons to motioning to modify the protective order
One potential con could be the court denying the modification request, which could leave the existing protective order in place.
why would the court deny
The court might deny your request if they believe the modification could potentially put you or your unborn child at risk.
what are reasons i could stage to modify the protective order
You could argue that the protective order hinders co-parenting or that the other party poses no threat. However, it's crucial to consult with a legal professional before proceeding.
what are other ways i could wrhje
I'm sorry, but your last message seems incomplete. Could you please clarify what other ways you're referring to?
argue
What exactly are you trying to argue or achieve with the modification of the protective order?
visitations on appointments
What is the current status of your relationship with the other party involved in the protective order?
they’re the father of the unborn baby
What is the current nature of your relationship with the father? Are you on amicable terms or is there still conflict?
there is no current relationship
What is the father's stance on the pregnancy and potential involvement?
there is no stance. he is unaware of the pregnancy
What is your plan for informing him about the pregnancy?
the court
What is the name of the court you are planning to inform him through?
that is not releganf
What is your main concern regarding the modification of the protective order?
the judges denial
What is the reason you believe the judge might deny your request for modification of the protective order?
safety factors
What specific safety factors are you concerned about?
what are reasons i can state
You can state reasons such as the necessity for the father's involvement in the child's life, or the importance of co-parenting. However, ensure your safety isn't compromised.
what about pregnancy
What specific concerns or questions do you have regarding your pregnancy in relation to the legal issue?
what are reasons I can modify the protective order due to pregnancy
In Connecticut, you can request a modification of a protective order due to significant changes in circumstances, such as pregnancy. You might argue that the father's involvement is necessary for prenatal appointments or future co-parenting.
how do i back up the necessity for prenatal appointments
You can provide medical documents or a doctor's note stating the importance of both parents' involvement in prenatal appointments for the baby's wellbeing.
these aren’t good reasons for the court
What reasons do you believe the court would consider valid for modifying the protective order?
what are valid reasons for the judge to modify a protective order due to pregnancy
In Connecticut, valid reasons could include:

- Significant change in circumstances (pregnancy)
- Necessity for co-parenting
- Father's involvement in prenatal care

Remember, safety is the court's primary concern.
i’m also a college student
What impact does your status as a college student have on your current situation?
housing
What specific issues or concerns are you facing with housing as a college student and expectant mother?
i will need to terminate the position of resident assistant
What are the terms of your contract for the position of resident assistant?
full time
What are the implications of terminating your full-time position as a resident assistant on your housing situation?
what are reasons to modify a protective order due to pregnancy
In Connecticut, valid reasons to modify a protective order due to pregnancy could include:

- Significant change in circumstances (pregnancy)
- Necessity for co-parenting
- Father's involvement in prenatal care

Remember, the court's primary concern is safety.
what are other reasons
Other reasons could include financial support, emotional support, or the father's expressed desire to be involved in the child's life. Always consult with a legal professional before proceeding.
what are reasons the judge will deny
The judge may deny the modification if they believe it could compromise your safety or if they feel the other party poses a risk to you or the unborn child.
what are valid reasons to state why i want to modify the protective order
In Connecticut, valid reasons to modify a protective order could include significant changes in circumstances like pregnancy, necessity for co-parenting, or the father's involvement in prenatal care. Always prioritize your safety.
why is fathers involvement in prenatal care
Father's involvement in prenatal care can be beneficial for the emotional support, shared responsibility, and the overall well-being of the child. It can also foster a healthy co-parenting environment.
what else
What is your plan for housing after terminating your position as a resident assistant?
does it make you look bad as a victim for wanting to modify a protective order
No, wanting to modify a protective order doesn't make you look bad. It's important to prioritize your safety and well-being, and the court understands circumstances can change.
is pregnancy a good reason
To modify a protective order, pregnancy can be considered a significant change in circumstances. However, the court's primary concern is your safety and the unborn child's welfare.
does it reflect on my life as a defendant and victim in the court system
Could you please clarify what you mean by "reflect on my life as a defendant and victim in the court system"? Are you asking about how this situation might impact your legal record or reputation?
yes legal record or reputation
Are you concerned about how requesting a modification to the protective order might impact your legal record or reputation?
yes
Have you consulted with a legal professional about your concerns regarding your legal record or reputation?
no
What is your plan to consult with a legal professional? It's important to get legal advice to understand the potential impacts on your legal record or reputation.
i was in a dual arrest for domestic violence
What is the current status of your case following the dual arrest for domestic violence?
what does that mean?
What is the current status of your legal proceedings following the dual arrest for domestic violence? Have you been charged, is the case still pending, or has it been resolved?
disorderly conduct but case is continuing
What are the details of the disorderly conduct charge? This information will help me provide more accurate advice.
what details?
What were the circumstances leading to the disorderly conduct charge?
domestic violence
What is the current status of the protective order?
full no contact protective order
What is the duration of the full no contact protective order?
until the case gets dismissed in february
What are your plans after the case gets dismissed in February?
i have to do counseling services
What type of counseling services are you required to do?
mental health
What is the duration of your mental health counseling services?
6 months
What is your plan after the completion of your mental health counseling services?
what are my options
What is your primary goal after the completion of your mental health counseling services?
nothing
What is your plan regarding the unborn child and the father's involvement?
what are my options?
What is your current relationship with the father of the unborn child?
there is no current relationship
What is your plan for co-parenting or involving the father in the child's life, considering the protective order and your current relationship status?
what are my options
What is your plan for housing and financial support during your pregnancy and after the birth of your child?
i live on college campus
What are the housing policies for pregnant students at your college campus?