Personal Dispute Over Artwork

Summary

This situation involves a personal dispute over gifts and artwork, with no legal obligation to provide artwork unless agreed upon. Document communications and consider legal advice if harassment persists. Prioritize personal safety and well-being.

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Hi i have a guy I as seeing that always says whatever he wants most of time to hurt me . For example last time he said ; he doesnt receive any type of material things from me. But I gave it to him a " painting " although "he doesnt remember". So last week he called me saying never gets anything from me... He meant in the material context. I have replied back that I dont buy people or love. He shouting down and avoided conflict by blocking me. He is 16 years older than me. Never gave me any material thing during 2 years intimacy and having lunch together.
Hi Isabela! It sounds like you are dealing with a challenging personal relationship. Based on what you've described, there may not be a direct legal issue here unless there is more to the situation. Are you seeking advice on potential harassment, emotional abuse, or something else specific?
He is now claiming for the food and business lunch he paid on our first meeting
Hi Isabela!
If this person is demanding reimbursement for food and business lunch expenses from your first meeting, it's generally not a legal obligation unless there was a prior agreement. However, if you feel threatened or harassed, you might want to consider the following steps:
- Document Everything: Keep records of all communications and transactions.
- Seek Legal Advice: Consult with a solicitor if the situation escalates or if you feel harassed.
- Personal Safety: Ensure your safety and well-being come first.
Is there any history of threats or harassment that makes you feel unsafe?
Yes he called saying that he paid for food and drinks on our first meetings. But we had intmacy kissing and I spent time with him
If the person is claiming reimbursement for food and drinks, you are generally not legally obligated to pay unless there was a prior agreement. Given the context of your relationship, this seems like a personal matter rather than a legal one.
- Document all communications.
- Consider seeking advice from a solicitor if harassment continues.
Is there any history of threats or other behavior that makes you feel unsafe?
He didnt ask for the reimbursement but wants my painting for free. My art work
If he's demanding your painting without any legal basis, you are not obligated to give it to him. You might consider taking the following steps:
- Document Communications: Keep records of his demands and any interactions.
- Seek Legal Advice: Consult with a solicitor regarding your rights over your artwork.
- Personal Safety: Ensure your safety and consider blocking him if harassment continues.
Has he made any threats related to this demand?
He is talking about past drinks and food he paid so that I should now give him some of my art work for free.
This situation primarily seems like a personal dispute rather than a legal one. Here's some advice:
- Document Everything: Keep a record of all communications with him.
- Seek Legal Advice: Consult with a solicitor about your rights regarding your artwork.
- Personal Safety: Ensure your safety and consider blocking him if harassment continues.
Has he made any specific threats related to this demand?
thank you
Hi Isabela! It sounds like a difficult situation. Since there are no specific threats and his demands seem more personal than legal, it might be best to keep documenting everything and seek legal advice if the situation escalates. Prioritize your safety and well-being. Is there anything else you need help with?