Teen Behavior Legal Concerns

Summary

Your 17-year-old sons refusal to follow rules and use of marijuana vape pens can lead to legal consequences, especially given his previous record. In Pennsylvania, marijuana use is illegal for those under 21, and his probation could be reinstated if he violates any law. Seeking professional help, such as therapists or counselors, is advisable. If he refuses to come home, involving law enforcement is an option, but consider the potential ramifications. For detailed guidance, consult a local attorney.

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Looking for advice on what to do with my 17 year old son in new oxford pa who refuses to follow rules, takes off in his car and refuses to come home and I can’t get him to stop using marijuana vape pens. He graduated from a diversionary program after stealing from the cash register at his job at Wal Mart. And they warned if he got in trouble in the next 6 months, which hasn’t passed yet. the charges will be reinstated and he will go on probation. He is diagnosed with a mood disorder and oppositional defiant disorder and is not taking his pills regularly.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, ****. Your son's actions could lead to legal consequences, given his previous record. In Pennsylvania:
- Possession and use of marijuana is illegal for those under *.
- Your son's probation could be reinstated if he violates any law.
Have you considered seeking professional help for his behavioral issues?
Did not know there was such a thing
Yes, ****, there are several resources available like therapists, counselors, and community programs that can help. If your son continues to break the law, there might be legal consequences. Consider reaching out to local support groups in New Oxford, PA.
Ok i misread your sentence. He is in counseling. I’ve tried to find family counseling for us both together but was unsuccessful. I am going to try to find counseling for myself and possibly include him?
That's a good step, ****. Involving a professional can help navigate these challenges. In terms of legal matters, if your son's behavior continues:
- He may face probation reinstatement due to illegal activities.
- Legal age for marijuana use in Pennsylvania is *.
Remember, this is general advice. For detailed guidance, consult a local attorney.
Do I need to call the police to make him come home? He is at a friends house and I. in contact with the mom but i’m afraid he is just going to try to stay there in definately
It's a tricky situation, ****. In Pennsylvania, at *, your son is still considered a minor. You could potentially involve law enforcement to ensure his return home. However, this is a decision that should be made considering possible ramifications.