Child Abuse Legal Concerns

ok so it is a little bit long so I will have to tell it to you in parts if thats ok

ok so it started back on sep. * * when I was * and I was going to cut class but a teacher seen us and made us go back to class but then the school called my mom and dad and my dad was very upset with me and I was on the phone for a long time that night and he told me how as soon as I was at his house he was going to beat me so the next day sep. * * was his visit day but after talking to him on the phone I was not wanting to go and knowing he was going to beat me just made me very upset and scared so at school that day I called my mom (I still have some more to send you)

right after it happened I called my mom and she came and got me and called the police but because of the police officer and my dad being good friends nothing happened to my dad (almost everyone in this town knows my dad and his family) so then the police calls the DFCS and that when everything got turned all around on my mom like she had done something wrong and the police dep. would not give my mom a copy of the report even with her asking for it many times she had to get a copy 4 months later from the DFCS and every time I talked to the DFCS they would tell me the same thing that I needed to talk to my dad or to go see him that he is so upset (I still have some more to tell you)

well let me tell you everything first.. and so my mom told them that my therapist did not want me to see or talk to my dad because he needed help first and when they found out that my mom has been taking me to see a therapist and took me right after it happen made them mad and when my mom told them that she took me to see my Dr a week after it happened because the bruises was not going away they got really upset with my mom and even ask her why she would do that and then they tell my mom that she needed to see their therapists and she said ok so then they told her that she was going to have to see their therapists at my dads house while him and his mother where there my mom left ever meeting crying (I still have some more)

but then they told my mom that they was not going to close the case in till I was going back to my dads to stay like I was before so then my mom called the case worker to ask her why was this she did not tell my mom why they was not going to close the case in till I was going back to my dads but then the case worker told my mom she would need to take a drug test so she did and then a week later they call my mom and tell her she did not pass her test well my mom known something was messed up somewhere and she keep asking for them to retest her and to get her a better test but they told her they would retest her in * weeks but my mom known she needed something showing she was clean right then (I still have more)

I would but I have already try to get a lawyer and so did my mom for we have try to get a lawyer for so long that now the statutes are up on us filing but I feel like with all the stuff we have have I know the courts with let us still file the case I just can not use up any more time on looking for a lawyer or waiting on a lawyer because I know that no lawyer is going to take this case even more so that the statutes are up

I would but I chatting with you about this already I know you don't know about it because I had to start a new chat but you ask me if I wanted to talk to a lawyer about this and I ready do because I know they know what to do in court and I don't but I gave you all my info and you said a lawyer would be calling or emailing me and they never did and I know we have a good case with all the records we have even when my mom lost her home and all of her stuff (because of what they did) she made sure to get everything that she had about this case we have photos massages even a email from the DFCS saying that the reason the case was opened was because my dad beat me so hard it left bruises on me for over * weeks and that is the same people who placed me with the man who beat me

lacey Towe, *-*-*, *, tanyasuepatterson78@gmail.com yes I can send you more about what happened

lacey Towe, *-*-*, *, tanyasuepatterson78@gmail.com

yes that info is right and no nothing else

are you sure that a lawyer will take my case

no but just to let you know I do have papers showing that I have a learning disability and ADHD my mom does to but she don't have papers on her but I was tested and that was a big reason has has taking us so long to get anything done because we have to do so much research and that takes us a long time and it makes it really hard for us and also I have well over * to * emails from where we have been trying to get help and a lawyer and we emailed everyone from the county commissioner the clerk of court the mayor district attorney governor attorney general and over * email to just lawyers we also ask all and any kind of free legal help like legal aid legal help for people with disability and any other legal help we could find online and on one would help us and that's not all the records we have we have so much more just on this case we have *'s of papers showing the wrong that was done to us and everything we lost because of this so I know we have a good case

no you told me that you was going to have a lawyer call me or email me so I was just going to wait in till they call or email but now with you telling me I need to contact legal aid I am starting to thank that maybe I should just keep trying to do it myself

no

can I tell you what was left of what happened

ok so I am just going to pick up from where I left off at if that's ok

showing she was clean the day they tested her so she went the next day and took a hair test at a lad where she had to show ID before they would give her the test and the day they tested my mom was on the tests days with the hair test and it came back clean but before my mom got her test back the day after she told them that she took the hair they removed me from my mom the day before she got her test back so as soon as she got it back they all wanted to see it so my mom send it to all of them and then they tell her that they could not take her test so when they removed me they told my mom that they was placing me with my dad and my mom told them no that they could place me with my mom's sister they did not want to but they did (I still have more to tell you)

and ever day my mom came and seen me she had to buy me a lot of stuff like a wifi box so I could do my homework she had to get me food and she had to give her sister $*. she didn't have to her sister was not making her but the way my mom is she was not going to have me stay there and not pay for me staying there she also got me other stuff to like a little t.v and a d.v.d player and some moves and other stuff to and was on the phone with me every night because I was scared in till I went to sleep but every time I talked to the DFCS they keep telling me that I needed to go stay with my dad and I was so upset thanking that they was going to make to go to my dads that I just ran away I didn't tell my mom or her sister anything (I still have more)

I did call my mom 2 days before they found me and told her where I was at and my mom said she did not thank we needed to tell the police or the DFCS in till after she talked to a lawyer because it was looking like they was not there to help us so my mom was going to talk to some lawyers and see what they said what we should do but before she could they found me and took me right to my dads and no one was saying the truth about anything they was all talking about my mom like she was a really bad person and they had been telling me from the first day I was at my moms sisters house that I could not be by my self with my mom that she needed help and so they still was saying that and then they made me call my mom the first day I was placed with my dad and tell her I could never see her again and that I could only talk to her on the phone for * min a week if I was good (I still have more)

nd so even with me telling them over and over that I was not safe there and all I done was cry I was so upset that I could not even sleep well and my mom was telling them every day that I was safe there and asking them to talk to me without my dad around so when the caseworker came to the school to talk to me and I told her everything I told that all my dad does is yell at me and sleep all day because he takes to many pills and I told her that when I tell my dad to get up and take me to school he yells at me that if i don't let him sleep he will tell my probation officer (I had a probation officer because after they found me they could me to court for the running away and to say who I was to stay with well because of the DFCS not telling the truth about anything and my dad not telling the truth about anything they said I was to stay with my dad and then they put me on 12 months of probation and even put a ankle monitor on me for 12 months) (I still have more)

o I told the caseworker all that and that they don't have any money to buy me the things I need and that it is a * bedroom house my dad is in one bedroom and his mother in the other one and that I could not close the bathroom door while I was there or any door and that my dad had to look at everything I had as soon as I came in the door from school and he told every teacher I had to not let me go to the bathroom in less one of them was with me and to make sure I did not use anyone's phone and if the taking drug test * times a week was not bad not be able to take my med was really bad and made me very sick everyday because before they removed me about a year back my mom was trying to find out what was going on with me and school because I was not doing well at (still have more)

school at all so she was working with the therapists and because of my mom having really bad learning disability she told my therapists that I needed to be tested for one so they started that but when you are going to be tested for a L.D it's not done in a day it took something like * or 7 months from the time my mom told the therapists to test me till the time that we got the test back so my mom and the therapists was just trying a number of things in till they found something that worked or helped me at school like more homework after school class's and when that did not work they then started by only giving me a little at a time they stop my after school class's but keep the homework and by this time we was getting my L.D test back and it showed that I did have a L.D (still have more)

and ADHD and so then my therapists says we needed to take a lot off of me that I had to much on me and I was going to give up so my therapists told my mom to show the school my test and to ask them to work with us and to let them know it could be next year before I was back where I should be as for going to school without crying and doing my work and knowing how to do my work and told my mom to go talk to my Dr and see if he thanks I should be put on any med to help while at school so she did she took copy's of my test to the school and had a meeting with them and they said they would work with me and do all this stuff like more time on my work and on test and if I needed to move around some I could go walk up and down the hallway a time or * because of the ADHD and all of that would have been really good if they would have done it and so my mom talks to my Dr and gives him a copy of the test also and he did (still have more)

thank that it would be best if I be put on med to help me while at school and they did help a lot I could set down for the first time without feeling like it was killing me but I also had really bad allergy and so I had already been on med for that for years (still have more)

ok so the last thing my therapists told my mom to do was to take me out of day school and put me in online school with my school so she did but me being * and not wanting to do my work and my mom was telling me that she known I was not doing it because she could login and see everything I had done so she told me that she was going to tell my therapists that the online school was not working at all because I had not even login at all so my therapists tells my mom that we had a meeting coming up in a little over a week and she told my mom not to tell me any more to do my work or to login to want and see what I did myself because I known what I should be doing and if the day of the meeting my mom was to bring something that show how much or how little I did and we (still have more)

would have a lot to talk about if I had done nothing but before that meeting I they removed me and I was no longer could see my therapists I seen my therapists while I was at my moms sister house but as soon as I got to my dads that was the first thing he stop at the time I needed to be seeing the therapists the most and the day before they removed me they ask my mom if I was still in school and she said yes and they said because she has not been to school in over a month and when my mom try to tell them why and what she and my therapists was doing they would not let my mom talk and telling her that I had best be at day school the next day so my mom just said that we would just do what they ask us to do that maybe they have reason we didn't know about so the next day when I go back to day school that's when they removed me school that (still have more)

day and so then the school started give me a drug test * times a week so no I did not pass the first drug test because of the med I was on and when I was trying tell the school about my med and that's why I didn't pass and I told them to call my dad he known I was on med they told me it was my dad that told them to test me and he didn't say anything about me being on any med so I told my mom and she said she could fix all that it would be ok so the next day she went to my Dr and got a print out of all my med that I had been taken for the passed year and a note from my Dr saying that I would not pass a drug test being on the med I was on and he even told what it would show up as on a drug test and that was what they was saying showed up and so then (still have more)

my mom goes to c.v.s and got a print out of the days I got my med filled and they even put a note on it saying that if given a drug test it would show that I failed and said what it would show up as and then put in the note that the med I was on I did not need to stop taking them because for them to work and help me the way they should I need to take them everyday so my mom takes a copy to the school and to the DFCS but she had to give the copy for the school to the school officer because he meet my mom at her car and ask her not to get out of her car because my dad told them that I was not to be around my mom and so some how my dad had it to where my mom could not be at the (still have more)

school but we was thanking that after she took the copy's up to the school that they would stop testing me but no they was still testing me so then my mom said for me to just stop taking my med just in till I passed their drug test and then I could start back taking my med and so when I passed the drug test I ask them so can I take my med (still have more)

again and they told me that they was not going to tell me not to take them and they was not going to tell me take them but they was going to be testing me * times a week anyways so I had to stop taking all my med for good and I was so sick and so with them taking me from class to take drug test and then showing up at school with a ankle monitor on and having court all the time no one at the school would talk to me any more everyone at the school was thanking that i was some kind of really bad kid and all the teachers at the school even the ones that were not my teacher was all telling me stuff like your dad just wants whats best for you he just loves you and your mom is sick and she needs help and keep telling me this kind of stuff even after i went back home to my (still have more)

mom to the point that i stop going to school because no one at that school should have been talking about my mom and or talking to me about things they knew nothing about yes they know my dad but they don't know anything about my mom and after i stop taking my med i started missing more school from being sick all the time so then i keep getting more behind in my work and then after i was at my dads he had me back in after school class's and had me doing more home work and told the school that i did not have a L.D even with them having a copy of my L.D papers i guess they just went on what ever my dad tells them so with me having to do everything and being behind already it was so hard and a big set back as far as my learning so i was with my dad for 2 months (still have more)

and * weeks at the end the DFCS would not return any of my moms calls they stop talking to her right after i was placed with my dad and they never ask my mom to do anything to get me back so when they closed the case my mom waited in till it was her day to get me from the old court papers that my mom and dad had that said when the visit's was it was something like 2 days after they closed the case and then she just came and got me at my dads she texts him saying they closed the case and it's my day to have her i'm coming and getting her my dad told her no and when she showed up he just started yelling at her telling her that if she takes me he would take her to court and (still have more)

so he did my mom came and got me on April * * and my dad took her back to court on June * * and told the judge that the DFCS closed the case with me in his care so that where i was to stay and that my mom was never to be around me again the judge did not like anything that my dad had to say and he had nothing to show as proof of what he was saying my mom had over * pages to show as proof that my dad was not telling the truth and when the judge ask my mom if she was going to do something about the way that she was done and said because it looks like you was done very wrong with all of this and my mom said yes she was going to take them all to court for (still have more)

what they did to us and the judge said good i hope you do my dad then ask if he could leave the court room and the judge said yes but first i want you to know that the old court papers are still good but one thing she was going to fix and that was that i did not have to go back to visit him anymore and then he left but after everything happened we started then seeing how bad all of that what happened really did hurt us in every way no one will know how much this has taken from us my mom has lost the most by far well i (still have more)

can say she has lost everything she has had just because of what has happened because right after they removed me people at my septdads work started asking him stuff about what was going on and asking him why my mom was letting me do drugs so he told my mom he did like that at all and ask her to leave so she has no where to go and no when to take all of her stuff and she was using up all the money she had saved already so she had to leave all of stuff behind everything that her mom dad (who has just passed away both her mom and dad) had given her and then she had to start selling all of her things that needed for work because she had not been working very (still have more)

much but with everything going on she didn't really stop and thank about why no one was needing her to do any work for them lately (my mom has worked the same job for over 19 years cleaning houses for her self) but after i came home and my mom started calling some of the people she had worked for and ask them why they no longer needed her she was told they they did not want someone who was using drugs and or someone who had used drugs in their home so my mom lost her home all of her stuff and her job and because of my mom having a really bad L.D she can't just go out and get any job now with all of the money she had saved for so long to buy her first work van she had (still have more)