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A judge can order mediation in a divorce case, but safety concerns are crucial. An expired restraining order can still be relevant. Inform the court about the past restraining order, highlight safety concerns, and request third-party mediation or communication through legal representatives. If summoned to court, you must appear. For legal help, consider pro bono services, legal clinics, or self-representation.Full Conversation
My partner is going through a nasty divorce. I had a restraining order against her for a year and we have met twice in court and once in person two years ago at a restaurant. Now she’s putting it in the divorce papers I have to meet her and they are being filed. Can a judge order me to meet her?
Hi ****, could you please specify your location? This will help me give you the most accurate information. Generally, a judge can order mediation or other forms of dispute resolution, but safety concerns should be taken into account.
So I Will have to meet her if it’s in their papers
Answer: Not necessarily, ****. While a judge can order mediation, your safety is paramount. If you're in the USA, you can request the court to consider your safety concerns. You may not have to meet her if conditions are unsafe. Can you specify your exact location?
So have a restraining order against her, even though it’s expired would be a good reason?
Yes, ****. An expired restraining order can still be relevant. You should:
- Inform the court about the past restraining order.
- Explain any safety concerns you have.
- Ask court to consider these while deciding on the meeting requirement.
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Yes, ****. In Colorado, an expired restraining order can be considered. You can:
- Request the court to consider the previous restraining order
- Ask for a third-party mediator
- Request for communication through legal representatives
Your safety and comfort are important in this process.
Sorry the chat box cuts off the last of your text so I can’t read it unless I respond.
Apologies for the inconvenience, ****. To summarise:
- Inform court about the expired restraining order
- Highlight your safety concerns
- Request for third-party mediation or communication through legal representatives. Your safety is a priority.
Ok thank you. One last question. If she brings him to court over not meeting me, will I be summoned to court?
Yes, ****. If a court hearing is scheduled, you will likely receive a summons to appear. However, the exact procedures can vary, so it's best to consult with your legal representative.
What if I can’t afford a lawyer but “make to much money” for a subsidized lawyer.
In Colorado, you might consider:
- Pro bono legal services: Some private attorneys offer free or reduced-cost services.
- Legal clinics: Often run by law schools or non-profit organizations.
- Legal insurance: Some providers offer affordable legal coverage.
- Self-representation: Consult legal resources to guide you.
Thank you very much.
You're welcome, ****. Anytime you need further legal information, feel free to ask. Remember, while we strive to provide accurate information, it's always best to consult with a legal professional for advice tailored to your situation.
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