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In Washington, if your ex-partner is withholding your belongings, consider sending a demand letter, requesting police assistance for a civil standby, or pursuing mediation. Cutting the lock without permission may be considered unlawful entry. Legal action, such as filing a small claims suit, is also an option if other methods fail.Full Conversation
my partner and i broke up 6 months ago, i have written proof he said i could store my belongings in what was our shared garage. he’s not getting me get my things back and has threatened to throw everything away out of malice. what can i do
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. In Oregon, you can consider the following steps:
- Demand Letter: Send a formal written request for your belongings, citing your proof.
- Police Assistance: Request police accompaniment to retrieve your items.
- Small Claims Court: Consider filing a claim for the value of your belongings.
Have you tried any of these options yet?
how does police assistance work? would my ex have to be there? everything is in a garage i don’t have a key for
In Oregon, police assistance can help ensure a peaceful retrieval of your belongings. Here’s how it works:
- Contact the Police: Request a "civil standby" for retrieving personal items.
- Presence of Ex: Your ex doesn't necessarily have to be present, but it might be helpful.
- Access Issue: Since you lack a key, mention this to the police for guidance.
Have you already contacted the police for assistance?
would the police be allowed to cut the lock
In Oregon, police typically won't cut a lock to help retrieve personal belongings during a civil standby. They can supervise to ensure peace but won't force entry. It's advisable to discuss the situation with the police to explore alternative solutions, like contacting a locksmith. Have you considered reaching out to a locksmith?
is it legal for me to cut the lock and get inside the garage and get my things?
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In Oregon, cutting the lock without permission might be considered unlawful entry or property damage, especially if the garage is solely in your ex's possession. It's best to avoid self-help measures that could escalate the situation. Consider legal avenues or mediation to resolve the issue amicably.
in washington
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In Washington, your situation is similar to Oregon. Here are some steps you might consider:
- Demand Letter: Send a formal request to your ex for your belongings.
- Police Assistance: Request a "civil standby" with the police for a peaceful retrieval.
- Mediation: Consider mediation to resolve disputes amicably.
- Legal Action: If necessary, file a small claims suit.
Have you explored legal action or mediation as options?
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