Pregnancy Disclosure Domestic Violence

Summary

The user, residing in Connecticut, is involved in a domestic violence case and has a no-contact protective order in place against the other party. She is pregnant and wants to disclose this to the other party, who is the father of the unborn child. She was advised to seek the courts permission for this specific disclosure by filing a motion at the court where the order was issued. The user was also guided on what to include in the motion and the possible supporting documents. The user was informed that the courts decision will depend on the specifics of her case and was advised to consult with a legal professional for guidance.

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what is the best way to be able to disclose pregnancy to the other party when involved in a domestic violence case and also a protective order is in place ?
What state are you currently residing in, Lulu? The rules for communication under a protective order can vary by location.
CT
What is the nature of the protective order in place? In Connecticut, generally, communication about child-related matters is allowed unless specifically prohibited.
The nature of the protective order is no contact whatsoever
In Connecticut, no-contact orders generally prohibit any form of communication. However, you may seek court's permission for this specific disclosure. Contact your local court for guidance.
how can I see courts permission for this specific disclosure.
You can request permission by filing a motion at the court where the order was issued. Contact the Connecticut Judicial Branch at (*) *-* for more guidance.
what will I need to bring with me to file a motion at the court?
To file a motion, you generally need:

- A written motion detailing your request
- Any supporting documents
- Copies for all parties involved

Please contact the Connecticut Judicial Branch at (*) *-* for specific requirements.
what are some supporting documents that will help
Supporting documents could include medical records confirming your pregnancy, any relevant communication records, or a letter from a counselor or therapist. Please consult with a legal professional for advice tailored to your situation.
will they deny
The court's decision will depend on the specifics of your case. It's important to present a compelling argument in your motion. Consult with a legal professional for guidance.
how can I present a compelling argument in my motion
how can I person a compelling argument?
for this type of issue
how can I compose a compelling argument?
What is the argument related to? Knowing the context will help in providing a more accurate guidance.
it is related to the pregnancy that I was talking about with you
What specific points do you want to include in your argument related to your pregnancy?
what is a compelling argument for disclosing pregnancy to the opposing party in a domestic violence cas
What is the current status of your case and which state are you located in? This will help me provide you with the most accurate information.
i am awaiting disposition and so is the other person
What is the nature of the disposition you are awaiting? This will help me provide you with the most accurate information.
verfict
What is the main reason you want to disclose your pregnancy to the opposing party in this case?
they’re the father of the unborn baby
The main reason for disclosing my pregnancy to the opposing party is because they are the
father of the unborn baby. What is the state you are located in? This will help me provide you with the most accurate information.
i am located in new london ct
What is the current stage of your case?
what are the different kinds of stages I could be in?
In general, legal cases can be in the following stages:

*. Investigation
*. Charges
*. Arraignment
*. Pretrial proceedings
*. Trial
*. Post-trial proceedings
*. Appeal.
I am in the arraignment process
What charges are you facing? This will help me provide you with the most accurate information.
misdemeanor
What specific misdemeanor charge are you facing?
disorderly conduct
What were the circumstances leading to your disorderly conduct charge?
domestic violence
What is the nature of the domestic violence incident that led to your disorderly conduct charge?
What do you mean by the nature?
what do you mean by the nature of the domestic violence incident?
By "nature of the domestic violence incident", I mean the specific details or circumstances of the incident. For example, what happened, when and where it happened, who was involved, etc.
it was a verbal argument that lead into physical abusive behaviors, and it happened at my ex-boyfriend’s house
The nature of the domestic violence was verbal abuse that turned into physical abusive behaviors at my ex-boyfriend
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hello
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What is the main point you want to make in your argument for disclosing your pregnancy?
I think my ex boyfriend has a right to know that he is the father of my baby and to have him become involved in the pregnancy process
What is your ex-boyfriend's current stance on this matter?
he does not know about the pregnancy
my ex boyfriend does not know that I am pregnant with his baby
What is your main concern about telling your ex-boyfriend about the pregnancy?
I don’t have any concerns
I don’t have any main concerns
i don’t have concerns
What is your goal in disclosing your pregnancy to your ex-boyfriend in the context of your legal case?
to modify the protective order as a ene
What specific modifications are you seeking in the protective order?
to dismiss the protective order
What is the reason you want to dismiss the protective order?
i am pregnant
i am pregnant
What is the current status of the protective order against your ex-boyfriend?
what do you mean by current status?
what do you mean by current status
By "current status", I mean is the protective order still active, has it been modified, or has it been dismissed?
it is still active
still active
still active
What are the terms of the current protective order?
full no contact order
full no contact order
What are the reasons you believe the full no contact order should be dismissed due to your pregnancy?
because he deserves the right to know about my pregnancy
What is the current status of your relationship with the father of the unborn baby?
when does the judge typically dismissed the protective order?
A judge may dismiss a protective order if they believe there's no longer a threat to the protected person. Can you provide more details about your situation?
how long until that happens
when will a judge dismiss a protective order?
can judges dismiss a protective order, even when a case is still going on?
Yes, judges can dismiss a protective order if they believe there's no longer a threat to the protected person. However, it's usually done after a formal request or hearing.
can judges dismiss a protective order during the second arraignment?
can judge is dismiss a protective order during the second arraignment?
can a judge dismiss a protective order during the second arraignment?
Yes, a judge can dismiss a protective order at any stage if they believe there's no longer a threat. However, it's usually done after a formal request or hearing.
what kind of formal request?
what kind of formal request are we referring to?
what kind of formal request?
what kind of formal request?
what are the chances that a judge will dismiss a protective order during a domestic violence case?
what are the chances a judge will dismiss a protective order while a domestic violence case is still going on?
What is the reason for the request to dismiss the protective order?

General Information:
- Judges usually consider safety first, so dismissal isn't common while a case is ongoing.
- Each case is unique and depends on the specific circumstances.
Pregnancy
What is the relationship between the person you have a protective order against and your pregnancy?
They are the father of the unborn baby
What is the current status of your relationship with the father of the unborn baby?
We are broken up due to the domestic violence
What is the nature and frequency of the domestic violence you experienced?

General Information:
- Domestic violence is taken seriously by courts.
- Your safety and the safety of your unborn child is paramount.
happened before
Could you please provide more details about the nature and frequency of the domestic violence incidents?
The frequency was not very common and not
What was the severity of the incidents when they occurred?
hello
Can you please elaborate on the severity of the domestic violence incidents?
resulted in breaking up
What were the physical or emotional impacts of these incidents on you?

General Information:
- Courts consider the severity and impact of domestic violence when deciding on protective orders.
I have a question
Of course, feel free to ask your question. I'm here to help.
how many court hearings in domestic cases does it take for the court to dismiss everything?
The number of court hearings in domestic cases varies depending on the specifics of the case. It's not a fixed number.
on average how many?
The average number of hearings can vary greatly depending on the complexity of the case, evidence, and jurisdiction. It's best to consult with a local attorney for specifics.
what can I expect on my second court hearing?
What is the purpose of your second court hearing? Is it for the protective order or the domestic violence case?
what is the purpose of my second court hearing
The purpose of a second court hearing can vary, but it's often for presenting evidence, witness testimonies, or discussing case progress. It depends on the specifics of your case.
what should i expect at the third court hearing
The third court hearing often involves further examination of evidence, potential witness testimonies, and discussions on case developments. It's specific to your case and jurisdiction.
how long until my case gets dismissed?
The duration until a case gets dismissed varies greatly depending on the specifics of the case, evidence, and jurisdiction. It's best to consult with a local attorney for specifics.
my abuser is having a 3rd hearing. what is it for?
The 3rd hearing could be for further examination of evidence, witness testimonies, or case developments. It's specific to your case and jurisdiction.
what are the steps in each court hearing?
The steps in each court hearing generally include:

- Call to order
- Presentation of the parties
- Presentation of the case
- Examination of witnesses
- Closing arguments
- Judge's decision
in my domestic violence case what should i expect for my disposition hearing?
Is your disposition hearing for the protective order or the domestic violence case?

General Information:
- A disposition hearing usually involves discussing plea bargains, trial dates, or potential resolution of the case.
- The specifics can vary based on jurisdiction and case details.
domestic violence case
In a domestic violence case, a disposition hearing typically involves:

- Reviewing the evidence
- Discussing plea bargains
- Setting trial dates
- Possible resolution of the case

Remember, each case is unique. It's best to consult with your attorney.
will it be to dismiss protective order?
What is the reason you believe the protective order should be dismissed?

General Information:
- Dismissal of a protective order is usually considered if there's a significant change in circumstances.
- The judge will prioritize safety.
because i am pregnant with the defendants bby
What is your plan regarding co-parenting with the defendant after the baby is born?
what are my options as far as pregnancy and disclosing information to the defendant considering there is a protective order on both of us?
What is the current status of the protective order? Are there any communication restrictions in place?

General Information:
- Protective orders often include communication restrictions.
- Disclosing pregnancy to the defendant may require legal advice to avoid violating the order.
there is a restriction in place of no contact allowed
What is the nature of the no-contact order? Is it complete non-communication or are there exceptions for certain types of communication?
non- communication
What is the duration of the no-contact order?

General Information:
- No-contact orders typically prohibit all forms of communication.
- Violating a no-contact order can lead to serious consequences.
does trying to modify a protective order make me look bad?
What is the reason you want to modify the protective order?

General Information:
- Courts understand circumstances change and allow for modifications.
- The judge will consider the safety of all parties involved.
i am pregnant
What is your plan regarding co-parenting with the defendant after the baby is born?
what are my options?
What is your current relationship with the defendant and how do you foresee it in the future?