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California Custody Dispute Guidance
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In California, custody disputes focus on the childs best interest. Violating a custody order can weaken a parents case for full custody. Judges consider factors like stability, safety, and the parents ability to meet the childs needs. Evidence such as communication records, witness statements, and therapist reports can support your case. Documenting negative influence and seeking professional evaluations are crucial. If a judge denies an ex parte motion, it suggests insufficient evidence for an emergency change, but the final decision will consider all evidence. Prepare thoroughly for court and consult with your lawyer for specific guidance.Full Conversation
I have a lawyer to appear at the hearing with me. But she doesn’t seem to think the judge will do anything about his violating the court order.
It sounds like a challenging situation. In California, judges focus on the child's best interest. Violating a custody order can lead to consequences, but it depends on the specifics of the case. Have you gathered evidence of the violations, such as communication records or witness statements, to present at the hearing?
No I haven’t. They haven’t asked for any of that.
It's good to hear you have legal representation. It might be helpful to discuss with your lawyer the potential benefit of gathering evidence, such as communication records or witness statements. This can support your case, especially when addressing violations of the custody order. Have you considered discussing a strategy with your lawyer before the hearing?
Okay thank you, I will bring it up again.
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It's great that you have legal representation. In California custody cases, evidence plays a crucial role. Discussing this with your lawyer could strengthen your position. If you need any further information or assistance, feel free to reach out!
It's great that you have legal representation. In California custody cases, evidence plays a crucial role. Discussing this with your lawyer could strengthen your position. If you need any further information or assistance, feel free to reach out!
My son has never been afraid of me. A couple of months prior to June 26th, my son has been pushing boundaries and not listening or being respectful when he is with me. I started giving consequences when he acted this way. He did t like that. I’ve never had anything like this in all of the 13 years he’s been alive. Dad in the other hand has videoed me whenever I see them. My son would always tell me I am the safe parent to him. But now that dad has kept him from me, and convinced him that my getting upset with him is considered “abuse. And neglect” by ooor kid is acting cruel and mean. He wants to see me for dinner today, but only if dad is present. I do t feel comfortable doing that. Dad is very intrusive and usually is recording me. I don’t know what to do.
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This is indeed a difficult situation. It's important to maintain your composure and focus on the best interest of your child. Here are a few steps you might consider:
- Document any instances where the custody order was violated.
- Communicate with your lawyer about the possibility of obtaining evidence or witness statements.
- Consider talking to a family therapist to mediate the situation, if possible.
If you have concerns about being recorded, you might want to discuss this with your lawyer as well.
This is indeed a difficult situation. It's important to maintain your composure and focus on the best interest of your child. Here are a few steps you might consider:
- Document any instances where the custody order was violated.
- Communicate with your lawyer about the possibility of obtaining evidence or witness statements.
- Consider talking to a family therapist to mediate the situation, if possible.
If you have concerns about being recorded, you might want to discuss this with your lawyer as well.
Ok thank you. I have another question; how likely is a ca family law judge going to give full custody to the parent violating the order, coupled with a 13 year old who doesn’t want to upset his dad?
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In California, family law judges prioritize the child's best interests. A parent violating a court order typically weakens their case for full custody. However, a child's preference, especially at age *, can influence the court's decision, but it won't be the sole factor. Judges consider a combination of factors, including stability, the child's safety, and the parent's ability to meet the child's needs.
If you have more questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask!
In California, family law judges prioritize the child's best interests. A parent violating a court order typically weakens their case for full custody. However, a child's preference, especially at age *, can influence the court's decision, but it won't be the sole factor. Judges consider a combination of factors, including stability, the child's safety, and the parent's ability to meet the child's needs.
If you have more questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask!
Ok, based on the judges denial of the exparte motions, does that indicate what the judge will do?
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While the judge's denial of ex parte motions may suggest that the evidence presented was insufficient to warrant an emergency change in custody, it doesn't necessarily predict the final outcome. Judges consider all evidence and factors presented at the hearing before making a decision. Would you like more information on preparing for the upcoming hearing?
While the judge's denial of ex parte motions may suggest that the evidence presented was insufficient to warrant an emergency change in custody, it doesn't necessarily predict the final outcome. Judges consider all evidence and factors presented at the hearing before making a decision. Would you like more information on preparing for the upcoming hearing?
Most everything is hearsay. Unless he gets someone to lie? But honestly his complaints are that I get angry too often, he doesn’t have privacy, and my co do was a mess. I
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In California, hearsay can be tricky in custody cases, but the court will focus on the best interest of your child. If most evidence is hearsay, it may not be heavily weighted. It's important to have credible evidence and witnesses. Have you considered reaching out to a family therapist or counselor to mediate the situation with your son?
In California, hearsay can be tricky in custody cases, but the court will focus on the best interest of your child. If most evidence is hearsay, it may not be heavily weighted. It's important to have credible evidence and witnesses. Have you considered reaching out to a family therapist or counselor to mediate the situation with your son?
Ii have tried that, as I am in therapy. When I brought it up to Oliver and Aaron they laughed at me and said “you’re the one who needs help”
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It's unfortunate that therapy hasn't been taken seriously by others involved. Staying focused on your son's well-being and maintaining a calm demeanor is crucial. Consider gathering any additional evidence you might have, even if it's minor. If you have further questions or need more guidance, feel free to ask!
It's unfortunate that therapy hasn't been taken seriously by others involved. Staying focused on your son's well-being and maintaining a calm demeanor is crucial. Consider gathering any additional evidence you might have, even if it's minor. If you have further questions or need more guidance, feel free to ask!
What do you mean by evidence. Can you give me a specific list of acceptable and concrete things that would be considered?
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In California custody cases, evidence can include:
- Communication records (texts, emails) showing custody order violations or interference.
- Witness statements from those who have seen interactions between parents and the child.
- Photographs or videos relevant to the case.
- Reports from therapists or counselors if applicable.
If you have more questions, feel free to ask!
In California custody cases, evidence can include:
- Communication records (texts, emails) showing custody order violations or interference.
- Witness statements from those who have seen interactions between parents and the child.
- Photographs or videos relevant to the case.
- Reports from therapists or counselors if applicable.
If you have more questions, feel free to ask!
This seems like a vague list. Can you get more specific please. Pictures or what exactly? Witness statements that say what exactly?
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In California custody cases, the evidence should be specific and relevant. Here are some examples:
- Communication Records: Proof of threats or derogatory comments from the other parent.
- Witness Statements: Observations from friends or family about your interactions and relationship with your child.
- Photographs/Videos: Images showing a safe and nurturing environment at home.
- Therapist Reports: Documentation of any mental health evaluations or therapy sessions related to your parenting or your child’s well-being.
If you have more questions or need further assistance, feel free to ask!
In California custody cases, the evidence should be specific and relevant. Here are some examples:
- Communication Records: Proof of threats or derogatory comments from the other parent.
- Witness Statements: Observations from friends or family about your interactions and relationship with your child.
- Photographs/Videos: Images showing a safe and nurturing environment at home.
- Therapist Reports: Documentation of any mental health evaluations or therapy sessions related to your parenting or your child’s well-being.
If you have more questions or need further assistance, feel free to ask!
How do I prove parental alienation in California family law
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To prove parental alienation in California family law:
- Document instances where the other parent speaks negatively about you to the child.
- Gather witness statements from those who have observed the alienation.
- Provide communication records showing the other parent's attempts to turn the child against you.
- Seek expert testimony from a therapist or counselor who has evaluated the situation.
If you have more questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask!
To prove parental alienation in California family law:
- Document instances where the other parent speaks negatively about you to the child.
- Gather witness statements from those who have observed the alienation.
- Provide communication records showing the other parent's attempts to turn the child against you.
- Seek expert testimony from a therapist or counselor who has evaluated the situation.
If you have more questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask!
How can I prove that my sons dad doesn’t care about his sons best interest? That this whole mess is just about manipulation and having control. That if this goes to a trial and needlessly costing tens of thousands of dollars, that our son will never feel that he can love me, his mother, ever again because his dad will blame him for costing him thousands of dollars?
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Proving that your son's father doesn't care about his best interests involves presenting concrete evidence and documentation. Here are steps you can take:
- Document Negative Influence: Record instances of negative comments or manipulation aimed at your child.
- Witness Statements: Collect statements from friends, family, or professionals who have witnessed manipulative behavior.
- Therapist Reports: Obtain documentation from therapists who can attest to the emotional impact on your child.
- Communication Records: Keep records of any communications that demonstrate manipulation or control.
If you need further guidance or have more questions, feel free to ask!
Proving that your son's father doesn't care about his best interests involves presenting concrete evidence and documentation. Here are steps you can take:
- Document Negative Influence: Record instances of negative comments or manipulation aimed at your child.
- Witness Statements: Collect statements from friends, family, or professionals who have witnessed manipulative behavior.
- Therapist Reports: Obtain documentation from therapists who can attest to the emotional impact on your child.
- Communication Records: Keep records of any communications that demonstrate manipulation or control.
If you need further guidance or have more questions, feel free to ask!
There is no witnesses when his dad is doing this covers I e and co troll I g. Ehaciors. My so. And I had a great relationship and the. All of a sudden, he can’t be alone with me without his father being there?
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It sounds like a challenging situation. In California, documenting these behaviors is crucial. Consider:
- Keeping a journal of incidents and conversations.
- Recording any communications that suggest manipulation.
- Seeking professional evaluations from therapists who can testify about the impact on your son.
Do you have any other questions or need more guidance?
It sounds like a challenging situation. In California, documenting these behaviors is crucial. Consider:
- Keeping a journal of incidents and conversations.
- Recording any communications that suggest manipulation.
- Seeking professional evaluations from therapists who can testify about the impact on your son.
Do you have any other questions or need more guidance?
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It seems you're in a very challenging situation. You might consider keeping detailed records of any manipulation or negative influence and seeking professional evaluations from therapists. These can be powerful in court. If you have further questions or need more guidance, feel free to ask!
It seems you're in a very challenging situation. You might consider keeping detailed records of any manipulation or negative influence and seeking professional evaluations from therapists. These can be powerful in court. If you have further questions or need more guidance, feel free to ask!
You further give me specific examples from real family law cases that define what you’re telling me is co sidered “ecosence”? Thanks
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It sounds like you're asking about "evidence" in family law cases. Here are specific examples:
- Communication Records: Texts/emails where one parent tries to undermine the other's relationship with the child.
- Witness Statements: From teachers or coaches describing changes in the child's behavior.
- Therapist Reports: Professionals noting emotional distress in the child.
- Photos/Videos: Showing positive interactions between you and your child.
These examples can help demonstrate the situation more clearly to a court. If you need more information or have further questions, feel free to ask!
It sounds like you're asking about "evidence" in family law cases. Here are specific examples:
- Communication Records: Texts/emails where one parent tries to undermine the other's relationship with the child.
- Witness Statements: From teachers or coaches describing changes in the child's behavior.
- Therapist Reports: Professionals noting emotional distress in the child.
- Photos/Videos: Showing positive interactions between you and your child.
These examples can help demonstrate the situation more clearly to a court. If you need more information or have further questions, feel free to ask!
If the judge rules ti strip me of my parental right, can I then go and file co trot if court papers with the Kurt and have him arrested
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If a judge rules to terminate your parental rights, it typically means the court has found sufficient grounds to do so, and it's a serious decision. Filing for contempt of court papers and seeking arrest is generally not applicable in this context. Instead, you might consider consulting with your lawyer to explore any possible appeals or alternative legal actions to protect your rights and relationship with your child.
Let me know if there's anything else you'd like to know!
If a judge rules to terminate your parental rights, it typically means the court has found sufficient grounds to do so, and it's a serious decision. Filing for contempt of court papers and seeking arrest is generally not applicable in this context. Instead, you might consider consulting with your lawyer to explore any possible appeals or alternative legal actions to protect your rights and relationship with your child.
Let me know if there's anything else you'd like to know!
U can only afford a lawyer for the day if the hearing. Anythjng beyond that I do t have the mess tj so. Do you have e a y helpful co refer and actionable steps I can take to. Ale sure I don’t lose my son?
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Here are some actionable steps you can take to help safeguard your custody rights:
- Document Everything: Keep a detailed record of interactions with your son and his father.
- Gather Evidence: Collect any communication records, witness statements, or therapist reports that demonstrate your positive relationship with your son.
- Prepare for Court: Discuss potential evidence with your lawyer and consider what could best support your case.
- Therapeutic Support: Consider involving a family therapist to provide professional insight into your relationship with your son.
Would you like more specific guidance or assistance on any of these steps?
Here are some actionable steps you can take to help safeguard your custody rights:
- Document Everything: Keep a detailed record of interactions with your son and his father.
- Gather Evidence: Collect any communication records, witness statements, or therapist reports that demonstrate your positive relationship with your son.
- Prepare for Court: Discuss potential evidence with your lawyer and consider what could best support your case.
- Therapeutic Support: Consider involving a family therapist to provide professional insight into your relationship with your son.
Would you like more specific guidance or assistance on any of these steps?
Do you have any data in averages when one party is dried by the judge an exparte, which way they go at the hearing? In terms is granting a motion to obtain full custody?
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In California, the outcome of an ex parte request can vary widely based on the specifics of each case. Typically, if an ex parte motion is denied, it suggests insufficient immediate evidence for an emergency custody change. However, the final hearing considers all evidence presented, and the judge will prioritize the child's best interest.
If you need more information on preparing for the hearing, feel free to ask!
In California, the outcome of an ex parte request can vary widely based on the specifics of each case. Typically, if an ex parte motion is denied, it suggests insufficient immediate evidence for an emergency custody change. However, the final hearing considers all evidence presented, and the judge will prioritize the child's best interest.
If you need more information on preparing for the hearing, feel free to ask!
Okay. Thanks. A bi copy and paste the declaration response here and then you tell me your o professional opinion and usefulness in court?
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It's understandable that you're seeking additional insight into your situation. While I can't provide specific legal advice, here are a few general points that might help:
- Consistency in Your Story: Ensure your declaration is consistent with any evidence you present.
- Focus on Evidence: Highlight concrete examples of your positive relationship with your son and any negative influence from the father.
- Address Allegations: Clearly refute any false claims, such as mental health issues, with evidence if possible.
If you have specific parts of your declaration you'd like feedback on, feel free to share them.
It's understandable that you're seeking additional insight into your situation. While I can't provide specific legal advice, here are a few general points that might help:
- Consistency in Your Story: Ensure your declaration is consistent with any evidence you present.
- Focus on Evidence: Highlight concrete examples of your positive relationship with your son and any negative influence from the father.
- Address Allegations: Clearly refute any false claims, such as mental health issues, with evidence if possible.
If you have specific parts of your declaration you'd like feedback on, feel free to share them.
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