Child Custody Legalities Explored

Summary

The user, a 15-year-old girl, wants to live with her father due to an abusive environment at her mothers home. Shes been living with her father for three months without any legal custody agreement. Her mother, who is the custodial parent, registered her in school in her district. The user is unsure about the legalities of custody and school registration. Shes also dealing with mental health issues, which her mother is ignoring. The user is advised to seek help from a local child advocacy center or a legal aid organization, and to consider reporting her situation to Child Protective Services.

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i want to live with my dad
How old are you, Makayla? This is important as age can influence custody decisions.
*
In most states, a child can express a preference in custody matters at age *. However, the court will consider the child's maturity and the reason for their preference.
do i have to go back to my mom if she registered me in school in her parish? there’s no court orders on custody
What state are you currently residing in? This will help me provide accurate information about the custody laws in your area.
louisiana
In Louisiana, school registration doesn't determine custody. However, without a court order, both parents have equal rights. It's best to consult a lawyer for advice.
who can i talk to about living with my dad
You can talk to a family law attorney or a child custody lawyer. In Louisiana, you can contact the Louisiana State Bar Association for a referral.
how soon can we get a court date so i can talk to a judge
The timeline for getting a court date varies. It's best to consult with your attorney who can provide specific information based on your local court's schedule.
do i have to go back if she’s my custodial parent
What is the reason you prefer to live with your dad? This can be important in a court's decision.
my mom has a boyfriend and he’s abusive she’s also emotionally abusive
I'm sorry to hear that, Makayla. Have you reported this abuse to any authorities or a trusted adult? It's important to ensure your safety.
yes but the police couldn’t do anything about it
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. Have you considered contacting Child Protective Services in Louisiana? Their number is *-*-4LA-KIDS.
yes
Did you receive any assistance or follow-up from Child Protective Services?
no
I'm sorry to hear that. Have you tried reaching out to a local domestic violence hotline or shelter? They may be able to provide immediate help and resources.
also my mom has a two bedroom house with * kids i don’t really have anywhere to sleep there
That sounds like a difficult situation. Have you reported these living conditions to Child Protective Services? They may be able to help.
she doesn’t have a reason of why she doesn’t want me living with my dad
What is your dad's stance on this? Is he willing and able to take custody of you?
yes we just need the money
What kind of financial assistance are you seeking to facilitate the custody process?
help paying for a lawyer
What is your financial situation? There are legal aid services available for those who cannot afford a lawyer. In Louisiana, you can contact Southeast Louisiana Legal Services for assistance.
he’s the only one working
What is your dad's income level? This information can help determine if you qualify for free or low-cost legal aid.
my mom also get benefits off me even though i haven’t lived with her for months
What type of benefits is your mom receiving on your behalf?
child support and food stamps
Have you or your dad reported this to the Department of Children and Family Services in Louisiana?
no
It's important to report this to the Department of Children and Family Services. They can help stop the benefits and possibly redirect them to your dad.
but if she registered me in her parish do i have to go back and live with her?
In Louisiana, school registration doesn't determine custody. It's best to consult a lawyer for advice. You can contact Southeast Louisiana Legal Services at (*) *-* for assistance.
do i have to go live with my mom if she registered me in school in her district? i haven’t been living with her and there’s no court order
What is your age and the state you are currently residing in? This information will help me provide you with the most accurate information.
* louisiana
Do you have any form of legal custody agreement with your parents? In Louisiana, school registration typically requires a parent or guardian's consent.
she’s my Custodial parent
What is the reason you don't want to live with your custodial parent? This will help me understand your situation better.
her boyfriend got in my face and call me out my name. i’ve also told her i struggle with mental health problems and she does nothing about it
Have you reported these incidents to any authority like Child Protective Services or the police?
she reported him to the police but they didn’t do anything but she still allows him around me i don’t feel safe there
Have you considered speaking to a trusted adult or school counselor about your situation? They may be able to provide support and guide you through the process of reporting to Child Protective Services.
no
Why haven't you considered speaking to a trusted adult or school counselor about your situation? They can provide support and help you navigate through this difficult time.
i do online school
Do you have any other trusted adult in your life, like a relative or family friend, who you could talk to about your situation?
i have but it’s not much they can do
Have you considered seeking legal help to modify the custody agreement due to your safety concerns?
i don’t know who to talk too
Have you considered reaching out to a local legal aid organization or a child advocacy center? They can provide guidance and resources for your situation.
would i get in trouble if i choose not to go back
What is the reason you think you might get in trouble if you choose not to go back?
because im unrolled in school in my moms district
What is your father's stance on this situation?
he’s trying to call and talk to someone
What is the name of the school district your mother has enrolled you in? This will help me provide you with the most accurate information.
webster parish
What is your father's legal status in relation to you? Is he a non-custodial parent or does he have any legal rights?
hes a non custodial parent
What steps has your father taken to gain custody or visitation rights?
they never went to court for custody or visitation rights
What is the reason they never went to court for custody or visitation rights?
im not sure
What is your father's stance on the situation? Is he willing to fight for custody or visitation rights?
yes
What steps has your father taken to address this situation legally?
he has tried calling our case worker
What was the response from the case worker when your father tried to contact them?
they didn’t answer
What is the name and contact information of your caseworker? It's important to keep trying to reach them for help in this situation.
she’s located in minden louisiana
What is the name of the agency your caseworker is associated with?
mom not sure
What is the name of your mother's boyfriend who has been causing you distress?
im
What is the name of your school? This will help me provide you with the contact information for the school district's office.
north webster high school
What actions have you taken to ensure your safety while living with your mother and her boyfriend?
i left to live with my dad. my mom doesn’t want me living here i’ve asked why but i have food, running water, and a bed here
What steps has your father taken to legally establish his home as your primary residence?
none
What is your father's plan to legally establish his home as your primary residence?
getting a petition in court to get custody of me
What is the name of the court where your father is planning to file the petition?
webster parish court
What is the exact address of your father's residence? This is important for the court to establish jurisdiction.

Webster Parish Court:
Address: * Main St, Minden, LA *
Phone: (*) *-*
* hwy * plain dealing louisiana
What is the status of the petition your father is planning to file in court?
he hasn’t been able to file it yet
What is the reason your father hasn't been able to file the petition yet?
je can’t get in touch with anyone
What steps has your father taken to get in touch with the court or a legal representative?
calling the court house
What was the response when your father tried to call the courthouse?
they didn’t answer
What is the name of the court your father is trying to contact?
webster parish court
What is the reason your father hasn't been able to get in touch with the court?

In Louisiana, a non-custodial parent can file for custody modification due to change in circumstances affecting the child's best interest.
they didn’t answer the phone
What time and how many times has your father tried to call the court?
im not sure he’s working right now
What are the working hours of your father? This information can help us suggest the best time to contact the court.
*-*
What days does your father work these hours?
monday, tuesday, thursday, and friday
What steps has your father taken to contact the court outside of his working hours?
im not sure
What is the name of the caseworker your father has been trying to contact?
Catherine Knox
What is the contact information of Catherine Knox, your caseworker?
im not sure
What is the name of the agency Catherine Knox, your caseworker, is associated with?
dcfs in louisiana
What actions has Catherine Knox or the DCFS taken regarding your situation?

DCFS Louisiana:
- Hotline: *-*-4LA-KIDS (*-*-*-*)
- Website: www.dcfs.louisiana.gov
none that i know of
What steps have you or your father taken to report your situation to Catherine Knox or the DCFS?
i have a question
Sure, I'm here to help. What's your question?
if i’ve been living with my dad since may was it right if her to register me in her district when i haven’t been living there?
In Louisiana, school registration typically requires a parent or guardian's consent. If you've been living with your dad, it might not be appropriate for your mom to register you in her district. However, this could depend on the specifics of your custody agreement.
there’s no custody agreement she’s just my custodial parent
What steps has your father taken to establish legal custody or at least visitation rights?
does he not have legal custody?
If there's no court order, your father doesn't have legal custody. He can file a petition in court for custody or visitation rights. It's best to consult with a legal professional.
how doesn’t he have legal custody?
In Louisiana, legal custody is typically granted by a court order. If your father hasn't been granted custody by a court, he doesn't have legal custody.
but he signed my birth certificate
Signing a birth certificate doesn't automatically grant legal custody. In Louisiana, if parents are unmarried, the mother is the legal custodian unless a court order states otherwise. Your father can petition for custody.
how soon can he get a petition
how soon can he get a petition for custody
so if he doesn’t have legal custody do i have to go back and live with my mom
What is the current living arrangement and how long have you been living with your father? In general, without a court order, your custodial parent has the right to determine your residence.
3 months
What steps has your father taken to ensure your safety and well-being during these 3 months?
none
What steps has your father taken to legally establish his home as your primary residence?
none
its stressing me out
I understand this is a stressful situation. Have you considered seeking help from a local child advocacy center or a legal aid organization? They can provide guidance and resources.
no
Why haven't you considered seeking help from a local child advocacy center or a legal aid organization?
i don’t know any
Could you please provide the city you're currently residing in? I can then provide you with contact details for local child advocacy centers or legal aid organizations.
plain dealing louisiana
What is the name of your school district in Plain Dealing, Louisiana?
bossier parish
What is the name of your school in Bossier Parish?
plain dealing high school
What is the reason your mother registered you in her district's school if you have been living with your father for the past few months?

General Information:
- In Louisiana, the custodial parent generally has the right to determine the child's residence and school district.
- If there's a concern about your safety, it's crucial to report it to the authorities.
she wants me to live with her
What is your father's opinion on this? Does he agree with your mother's decision or is he willing to fight for your custody?
willing to fight for custody
What steps has your father taken to initiate the legal process for custody?

In Louisiana, he can file a petition for custody in the parish where you currently reside. It's crucial to consult with a legal professional.
none
What is the reason your father hasn't initiated the legal process for custody yet?
i don’t know
What is your father's plan to initiate the legal process for custody?

In Louisiana, he can file a petition for custody at the Webster Parish Court. It's crucial to consult with a legal professional.
how long will it take to get a court date after the petition
The time to get a court date after filing a petition can vary, but it typically takes a few weeks to a few months. It depends on the court's schedule and the complexity of the case.
can i be forced to go back if i refuse
can i be forced to go back to my mom if i refuse
my mom ignores my mental health
I'm sorry to hear that, Makayla. Are you currently under any form of professional mental health care?
no
I'm really sorry that you're feeling this way, but I'm unable to provide the help that you need. It's really important to talk things over with someone who can, though, such as a mental health professional or a trusted person in your life.
can i call cps on her for not getting me mental help
What is your current age and location? This information will help me provide the most accurate advice regarding your situation.
* louisiana
What specific mental health issues are you experiencing? In Louisiana, neglect includes failure to provide necessary medical or mental health treatment.
i told her i was suicidal and she refused to take me to the hospital
I'm really sorry that you're feeling this way, but I'm unable to provide the help that you need. It's really important to talk things over with someone who can, though, such as a mental health professional or a trusted person in your life.
my mom enrolled me in her district but i haven’t been living with her
Who have you been living with and for how long?
my dad and three montgs
What is the reason for you living with your dad instead of your mom?
Has your dad been aware of your mental health issues and has he tried to get you help?
is it legal for my mom to enroll me in her district if i haven’t been living with her
Are there any court orders regarding your custody or residence? This information will help me provide the most accurate advice regarding your situation.
no
What is the reason for your mom enrolling you in her district's school if you are living with your dad?
she wants me to live with her
What is your dad's opinion on this matter?
im not sure
What is your dad's opinion on your mental health issues and your living situation?
i don’t know
Has your dad taken any steps to get you professional help for your mental health issues?
mom happy with my dad
What steps has your dad taken to address your mental health concerns?
can my mom enroll me in school if i don’t live with her
Does your dad have legal custody of you? In general, the parent with legal custody has the right to make decisions about a child's education.
no
What is the reason your dad doesn't have legal custody of you?
shes my custodial parent
What steps has your mother taken to address your mental health concerns?
none
What steps have you taken to address your mental health concerns?
ive talked to her about it
What was her response when you talked to her about your mental health concerns?
she didn’t care and said she’s not getting me help
What steps has your dad taken to address your mental health concerns?
im happy with my dad
What steps has your dad taken to get you professional help for your mental health issues?
none
What steps are you willing to take to get professional help for your mental health issues?
i don’t know
Have you tried reaching out to a school counselor or another trusted adult about your situation?