Quebec Divorce Jurisdiction Explained

my ex would trick me into buying his groceries. He would encourage me to shop and choose many things, and he would include his items in the cart. At the checkout, he would stand back and wait for me to pay. Once I even had to go to the restroom just before we checked out and he hauled his cart out of the checkout line, and told me that he wasn't going through until I came back. This was also after he said that he would pay for his own groceries. And another example is that he would frequently leave the car with practically no gas left in it. He's apartment wasn't a very hilly area, miles out of town where the nearest gas station was located. He had told me on multiple occasions that we should fill up at Costco. Where is the cheapest, however, he's the only one at Costco card. He would get very mad when I would only put * or $* and not fill up the car, because the nearest gas station was at one of the most expensive locations in California. I know he was purposely leaving his car empty so that would pay for. Another example is, he would intentionally deprive me of sleep. He would needlessly leave lights on outside of my room at night and he would get very angry if I shut them off. he would sometimes talk very loudly to our baby to try to keep me awake. Sometimes you would turn on all the lights in our baby son's room, which would prevent him from sleeping too, even if he was awake at night to feed. He has come to the room while I was sleeping before to force me to look at Instagram memes That explain information related to finances, while I was sleeping with our baby son. It was a totally inappropriate time, came out of the middle of nowhere, and not relevant to anything that was going on at that moment. He has tried to embarrass me and question my Integrity in front of a common employer. He suggested that I would share their marketing assets with my father who is a major competitor. He also suggested to that company that my father has some type of legal restrictions that prevent him from traveling. My ex has never met my father, though, and he has no proof to back that up nor does he have any good reason to share that with a competitor of my father . Another thing is that he would withhold from my son sometimes when he was angry at me. When he's angry with me, he is not pay attention to my son. He does not ask how he is doing when we are separated. He does not ask for any video calls, and when we were physically together, sometimes he would withhold feeding him, or changing him, or providing him with a quiet environment because he was too occupied with , fighting with me. he has also blamed me for his lack of ability to maintain a job. (he lost his last two jobs after only one year of employment). he blames me for being unable to do exercise and tells me that he's in the worst shape of his life. However, whenever we create or agree on time for him to have a turn to "play outside", he would find excuses not to. He "does things for me" and then afterwards explains that I am in some sort of a debt to him. He has presented to other people that I force him to do the things that he offers to do and encourages me to accept him to do. He has also contacted the police on one occasion and told them that I was abducting our son when he knew full well that we were returning to Canada for my sons healthcare. Initially, my ex was even supposed to join us. He has made , doing productive things very difficult. For example, when I try to pack up my stuff to leave his home for a good, he told me that he would help me. Then he told me he wouldn't help me then he told me I could borrow his car to go and get the boxes. I needed to pack my Large items. Then he told me that I couldn't borrow it then he told me that he would go and get them. Then he left for hours, he returned without the boxes because he told me they weren't available , but I had confirmed that they were available, and I even told him where to get them. Then he told me to go and get them myself. And then he told me I couldn't. Then he told me I could go and get them myself. Then when I went to get the boxes and brought them back, he told me that I could use those boxes . Then, when I was trying to things he wouldn't leave me alone he would keep arguing with me. Then he would tell me he would help me. Then he wouldn't help me. Then he told me I could use his tools. And then I wasn't allowed to use his tools . Has happened in similar ways, in different circumstances as well. he has told me that I am not allowed to ask certain questions like, for example, where are my keys or where is my phone. He is easily triggered by certain topics, especially ones that include finances or living arrangements. I have to walk on eggshells to be careful not to make him angry. Once I said him off because I asked him why the shower was on. I had just woken up and he was fully closed, and standing in the kitchen of my small condo that has a shower that does not need to be preheated. He got very angry that I asked him. He is very angry. If I come to check on my son if he is crying, well, my ex is taking care of him. If I make suggestions on things that we should pay attention to with our son for his well-being, he will often come back to me the same day or several days later stating the same point and insinuating that I am not doing it , and that I had never even brought that up. It feels like some sort of gaslighting, even suggestions weren't even ever presented in an attacking or negative way in the first place. The fact that he represents them to me as though he is the one that is noticing things and is certain concerns is strange to me… That's a start to the domestic abuse and emotional abuse that I would like to present.

from where I have told you can you please give me an example of how he monitored my actions?

Unfortunately, that is an accurate. I didn't state that my ex did that, and to my recollection he never did.