Navigating Divorce Mediation

Summary

Kent, a resident of New Mexico, is seeking guidance on navigating divorce mediation. He is particularly concerned about alimony and property division, including a 2015 Jeep Patriot. He is also struggling with PTSD and is on disability. He is unsure about how to fill out the necessary forms for mediation and is having difficulty finding affordable legal assistance. He has reached out to legal aid services and local non-profit legal organizations, but has not received a response. He is currently waiting for updates from the 13th Judicial District Court Sandoval County NM, where he filed his divorce.

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I did the divorce myself but need a lot of help in mediation
What specific issues are you facing in mediation, ****?
alimony car married * yrs
What state are you in, ****? Alimony laws vary by state. In general, the length of the marriage can significantly impact alimony decisions.
New Mexico
What is the current financial situation of both parties involved? In New Mexico, alimony is determined by factors like financial resources, age, health, and duration of marriage.
I get * a month she gets over * she just ran out abandoned me
What are the details of your current alimony agreement?

In New Mexico, alimony is based on need and ability to pay. The court considers factors like income, health, and length of marriage.
have none
What are your expectations regarding the alimony? In New Mexico, the court considers factors like income, health, and length of marriage when determining alimony.
some of the car and * alimony
What is the make, model, and year of the car you're referring to? In New Mexico, property division is typically equitable, not necessarily equal.
2015jeep patriot
What is the current market value of the * Jeep Patriot? In New Mexico, the division of property is based on equitable distribution, which includes vehicles.
*,*
What is the remaining balance on the car loan, if any? In New Mexico, the court considers the net value of assets when dividing property.
I don’t no she had all the mail sent too new address but not much it’s the point
Do you have any way to access the loan information or contact the lender to find out the remaining balance?
I can try but she been one step ahead on me
What is the name of the lender for the car loan?
carmax
What is the location of the Carmax branch where the car loan was taken out?
Albq
The nearest Carmax to Albuquerque is located at * Alameda Blvd NE, Albuquerque, NM *. You can contact them at (*) *-* to inquire about the loan details.
okay
What is the status of your health and age, ****? These factors can also influence the alimony decision in New Mexico.
* fair healthhave specialist
What is the nature of your health condition and how does it affect your ability to work?
Iv’e be on disability since I was35
What is the nature of your disability and how does it impact your daily life?
PTSD it effects everything every day
What kind of support or treatment are you receiving for your PTSD?
none I can’t afford it
What type of free or low-cost mental health resources have you explored for your PTSD?
I just see my general practitioner I’ve had over45 yrs of counseling you have too have a good match
What is the name and location of your general practitioner?
Dr William Anderson Rio Rancho nm
Dr. William Anderson's office is located at * Unser Blvd SE, Rio Rancho, NM *. You can contact them at (*) *-*.
okay what about mediation
What specific issues or concerns do you have about the mediation process?
how do I file out these form how do I show need
What form are you referring to? In general, to show need in a mediation, you should provide evidence of your income, expenses, and any special circumstances like health conditions.
so do i just need my information
Yes, you'll need your financial information, health condition details, and any other relevant information that can support your case in mediation.
so what do I do now
You should gather all your relevant documents and contact a mediator. In New Mexico, you can find certified mediators through the New Mexico Courts website.
no you can’t
I'm sorry for the confusion. Can you please clarify what you're unable to do?
How do you file out marital settlement ago
To fill out a marital settlement agreement, you'll need to detail your division of assets, debts, alimony, and any other relevant issues. It's recommended to seek legal advice to ensure accuracy.
okay I can’t afford a lawyer I no I need one I’m scared half toodeath
I understand your concern, ****. Have you considered reaching out to legal aid services in New Mexico? They often provide free or low-cost legal assistance to those who qualify.
they never call back neither not the Bar not legal aid
I'm sorry to hear that. Have you tried contacting other local non-profit legal organizations or law schools for pro bono services?
yes there not accepting new people
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Have you considered reaching out to the New Mexico Legal Aid hotline at *-*-LGL-HELP (*-*-*-*)? They might be able to assist you.
yes I have nothing but I can try again
What is the status of your case? Have you already filed for divorce and are now in the mediation process?
just what you said I’m waiting too hear from court
What is the name of the court where you filed your divorce?
13th judicial district court sandoval county nm
The 13th Judicial District Court Sandoval County NM is located at * Idalia Rd, Bernalillo, NM *. You can contact them at (*) *-* for case updates.
I do I called yesterday I meed help using the tight word and navigate these there tuff
What specific words or phrases are you having trouble with in the mediation process?
Need rightstuff
What exactly do you mean by "rightstuff"? Are you referring to specific legal terms or documents?
no
What specific help do you need in filling out the forms for mediation?
I don’t have a clue
What forms have you been asked to fill out for the mediation process?
I don’t know what form thats why I’m cofused
What is the name of the court where your mediation is scheduled? They should be able to provide you with the specific forms you need for your case.
Same court
The 13th Judicial District Court Sandoval County NM can provide you with the specific forms for mediation. Their address is * Idalia Rd, Bernalillo, NM *, and their contact number is (*) *-*.
I know you tried but you didn’t help me thank you goodbye
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling overwhelmed, ****. Have you tried reaching out to a local law school for pro bono legal assistance? They often have programs to help individuals in your situation.
There absolutely no hope no one too help I’m done least you are free
I'm really sorry that you're feeling this way, but I'm unable to provide the help that you need. It's really important to talk things over with someone who can, though, such as a mental health professional or a trusted person in your life.
who are you kidding there’s no one I’m all alone not even God is with me G
I'm really sorry that you're feeling this way, but I'm unable to provide the help that you need. It's really important to talk things over with someone who can, though, such as a mental health professional or a trusted person in your life.