Family Home Occupation Order

Summary

To address a family home dispute due to partner infidelity, consider seeking legal advice, mediation, or applying for an occupation order. The court will consider factors like childrens needs, financial resources, and safety. To strengthen your application, gather evidence of infidelity, highlight childrens needs, and document financial constraints and safety concerns. You can also draft a cohabitation agreement or deed of trust to regulate property use. Legal agreements generally do not need court signatures but should be reviewed by a solicitor.

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I live with my partner and my children * and 4 years old, due to partner infidelity the relationship broke down two years ago. While he was having an affair we bought our family home and he is now refusing to move out but hasn't given up the other relationship for two years. He earns double my salary and I can't afford a property on my own.
It sounds like a challenging situation. You may want to consider the following steps:
- Seek Legal Advice: Consult a family law solicitor for tailored advice.
- Mediation: This can help both parties reach an agreement.
- Court Order: You might be able to apply for an occupation order to have him removed from the home.
Would you like more information on any of these options?
Occupation order info
An occupation order can be a useful legal tool in your situation. Here’s some general information about occupation orders in the UK:
- Definition: An occupation order regulates who can live in the family home.
- Eligibility: You must have a legal right to the home (ownership or tenancy).
- Types: There are different types of orders depending on your relationship to the respondent.
- Criteria: The court considers factors like the housing needs of children, financial resources, and the health, safety, and well-being of both parties.
Would you like more details on how to apply for an occupation order?
Yes please
To apply for an occupation order in the UK, here are the key steps:
- Fill Out the Application: Complete Form FL401.
- File the Application: Submit it to the Family Court.
- Attend a Hearing: The court will set a date where both parties can present their case.
- Court Decision: The judge will issue an order based on the evidence.
Would you like more information on completing Form FL401 or the court process?
I have heard it's difficult for the order to be granted when the respondent doesn't have an alternative accomodation
It's true that the court considers the availability of alternative accommodation when deciding on an occupation order. However, the court primarily focuses on the welfare of the children and the safety and well-being of all parties involved.
Would you like more details on how to strengthen your application for an occupation order?
Yes please
To strengthen your application for an occupation order, consider the following:
- Document Evidence: Gather evidence of your partner's infidelity and its impact on the family.
- Highlight Children's Needs: Emphasize the stability and well-being of your children.
- Financial Situation: Provide details about your financial constraints.
- Safety Concerns: If there are any safety concerns, document them.
Would you like more information on gathering evidence or preparing for the court hearing?
Yes please
To gather evidence and prepare for the court hearing:
- Document Evidence: Keep records of communications, financial transactions, and any incidents related to infidelity.
- Children's Needs: Collect school reports or letters from teachers highlighting their needs.
- Financial Details: Assemble pay slips, bank statements, and bills.
- Safety Concerns: Document any threats or incidents, and consider witness statements.
Would you like guidance on how to present this evidence effectively in court?
Yes thanks
To present your evidence effectively in court:
- Organize Documents: Sort and label all evidence clearly.
- Witness Statements: Obtain written statements from witnesses.
- Chronological Order: Present evidence in a timeline format.
- Legal Advice: Consider consulting a solicitor for advice on presentation.
Would you like more information on how to find a family law solicitor?
My partner suggested to buy a second property together where he could live in. How can I legally regulate the using of that property? Can I make his moving out a condition for agreeing to buy?
You can regulate the use of the second property through a legal agreement. This could include:
- Cohabitation Agreement: Outline the terms of property use and conditions for moving out.
- Deed of Trust: Specify ownership shares and any conditions.
- Conditional Sale Agreement: Make his moving out a condition for the purchase.
Would you like more details on how to draft such an agreement?
Yes please
Legal Agreements to Regulate Property Use
- Cohabitation Agreement: Specifies terms of property use and conditions for moving out.
- Deed of Trust: Details ownership shares and conditions.
- Conditional Sale Agreement: Makes his moving out a condition for the purchase.
Would you like assistance in drafting one of these agreements?
Does this need to be signed by court
In the UK, legal agreements such as a Cohabitation Agreement, Deed of Trust, or Conditional Sale Agreement generally do not need to be signed by a court. However, it is advisable to have them drafted or reviewed by a solicitor and signed by both parties to ensure they are legally binding.
Would you like more details on finding a solicitor to assist with this?
No I would like a sample drafting
Sample Drafting for Cohabitation Agreement
Cohabitation Agreement
Parties:
- [Your Name], residing at [Your Address]
- [Partner's Name], residing at [Partner's Address]
Purpose:
This agreement outlines the terms and conditions for the use of the property located at [Property Address] and establishes conditions for moving out.
Terms and Conditions:
*. Property Use:
- The property at [Property Address] will be used by [Partner's Name] as a residence.
- [Your Name] retains the right to enter the property with prior notice.
*. Ownership:
- The property will be owned jointly by [Your Name] and [Partner's Name].
- Ownership shares will be divided as follows: [Specify Ownership Shares, e.g., */*].
*. Financial Contributions:
- [Partner's Name] agrees to pay [Specify Amount] towards the mortgage and upkeep of the property.
*. Condition for Purchase:
- This agreement is conditional upon [Partner's Name] moving out of the family home located at [Family Home Address] within [Specify Timeframe, e.g., 30 days] of the purchase of the new property.
*. Alternative Accommodation:
- [Partner's Name] must secure alternative accommodation before moving out of the family home.
*. Termination:
- This agreement may be terminated by mutual consent or by either party providing [Specify Notice Period, e.g., 60 days] written notice.

*. Dispute Resolution:
- Any disputes arising from this agreement will be resolved through mediation or, if necessary, by a court of law.
Signatures:
_________________________
[Your Name]
Date: ____________
_________________________
[Partner's Name]
Date: ____________
Witnesses:
_________________________
[Witness Name]
Date: ____________
_________________________
[Witness Name]
Date: ____________
Would you like more details on any specific part of this agreement or assistance in finding a solicitor to review it?