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Using Parents Ebt Card
Summary
Using a parents EBT card with their permission is generally allowed, but a temporary restraining order (TRO) complicates matters. If the TRO restricts contact, using the card could be a violation. Its crucial to gather evidence showing prior permission and purchases made for their needs. In court, present evidence like written statements, receipts, and witness testimonies. Address any additional claims, such as threats, with supporting evidence. Legal aid services can provide guidance, even with limited time before a court date.Full Conversation
Am i aloud to use my parents ebt card to shop for them?
Yes, you can use your parents' EBT card to shop for them, provided they give you permission. However, it's important to remember that the benefits are intended for their use, so ensure you're using it solely for their needs.
Are there any specific rules or concerns you have about using the card?
Are there any specific rules or concerns you have about using the card?
I had a temporary restraining order put on me for my parents and one of the issues they put on the paperwork was that i use their food card.
****, it sounds like using your parents' EBT card could be a violation of the temporary restraining order. Here are some key points:
- A temporary restraining order (TRO) restricts contact and specific actions.
- Using their EBT card might be considered a form of contact or misuse.
Do you need help understanding the terms of the TRO or considering your next steps?
- A temporary restraining order (TRO) restricts contact and specific actions.
- Using their EBT card might be considered a form of contact or misuse.
Do you need help understanding the terms of the TRO or considering your next steps?
My sister is claiming i used their food card before i got the restraining order. And of course i did, with permission and neither of my parents drive so i do the shopping for them with it.
****, your situation involves following points:
- The key issue is whether you used the card before or after the TRO was issued.
- If you used it before the TRO, it's crucial to show you had their permission.
Do you have any proof or communication from your parents that permitted you to use the card?
- The key issue is whether you used the card before or after the TRO was issued.
- If you used it before the TRO, it's crucial to show you had their permission.
Do you have any proof or communication from your parents that permitted you to use the card?
I was the only person living with them. Taking care of them. They are both disabled, with their permission i did their shopping with it.
****, it sounds like you were genuinely using the EBT card for your parents' needs with their permission. However, proving this is essential. Here are some steps you could consider:
- Gather any written or recorded communication from your parents granting permission.
- Collect receipts or any documentation showing the purchases were for their needs.
Do you have any such documentation or need help understanding how to present your case?
- Gather any written or recorded communication from your parents granting permission.
- Collect receipts or any documentation showing the purchases were for their needs.
Do you have any such documentation or need help understanding how to present your case?
My parents would tell anyone that i was allowed to use it. My sister is the one who listed it as an issue.
****, it would be beneficial for you to gather any evidence that can demonstrate your parents' permission and the necessity of your actions. This includes:
- Written statements from your parents.
- Receipts showing purchases for their needs.
Do you think you could get a written statement from your parents confirming their permission?
- Written statements from your parents.
- Receipts showing purchases for their needs.
Do you think you could get a written statement from your parents confirming their permission?
I definitely could except i have a temporary restraining order so i cant have any contact with them and my court hearing is on the 27th of this month.
****, you should consider the following:
- Gather any prior written evidence or receipts you have.
- During the court hearing, explain your role in caring for your parents and their permission.
- Mention the TRO prohibits current contact for new evidence.
A lawyer can help you present your case effectively. Do you need help finding legal representation?
- Gather any prior written evidence or receipts you have.
- During the court hearing, explain your role in caring for your parents and their permission.
- Mention the TRO prohibits current contact for new evidence.
A lawyer can help you present your case effectively. Do you need help finding legal representation?
Is that possible with only a few days until my court date?
It's possible to get legal representation even with limited time. Here are some steps:
- Contact local legal aid services immediately for assistance.
- Explain your urgent situation and upcoming court date.
- Gather any existing evidence you already have to present in court.
Would you like help finding local legal aid services?
- Contact local legal aid services immediately for assistance.
- Explain your urgent situation and upcoming court date.
- Gather any existing evidence you already have to present in court.
Would you like help finding local legal aid services?
Yes please.
****, here is contact information for legal aid services that could assist you:
Phone: (*) *-*
Website: www.lasmny.org
Do you have any other questions or concerns about your upcoming court hearing?
Legal Aid Society of Mid-New York
Phone: (*) *-*
Website: www.lasmny.org
Do you have any other questions or concerns about your upcoming court hearing?
I live in Washington state,
****, since you live in Washington state, you should contact local legal aid services in your area. Here are some options:
Phone: *-*-*-*
Website: www.nwjustice.org
Would you like more information or have any other questions about your case?
Northwest Justice Project
Phone: *-*-*-*
Website: www.nwjustice.org
Would you like more information or have any other questions about your case?
Yes, my sister also claims i threatened suicide, but i never did, i am literally the only one that had been there taking care of them.
****, it's important to address the suicide threat claim as well. Here are some steps you can take:
- Gather evidence from those who can attest to your behavior and mental state.
- Consider getting a written statement from a mental health professional if possible.
- Discuss this new claim with your legal aid representative immediately.
Do you need help contacting a mental health professional for a statement?
- Gather evidence from those who can attest to your behavior and mental state.
- Consider getting a written statement from a mental health professional if possible.
- Discuss this new claim with your legal aid representative immediately.
Do you need help contacting a mental health professional for a statement?
Will my court date be to decide if im a danger to my parents and if the restraining order should be permanent?
Your court date is likely to assess both whether you pose a danger to your parents and if the restraining order should be made permanent. It will be important to present evidence and arguments regarding your actions and intentions.
Do you need assistance preparing any specific documents or evidence for your hearing?
Do you need assistance preparing any specific documents or evidence for your hearing?
Yes
****, here are some key documents and evidence you should prepare for your hearing:
- Written statements from your parents (if you can obtain them legally)
- Receipts showing purchases were for your parents' needs
- Any prior written evidence or communication from your parents
- Evidence or statements addressing the suicide threat claim
- A list of witnesses who can attest to your behavior and role in caring for your parents
Would you like more detailed guidance on how to prepare any of these items?
- Written statements from your parents (if you can obtain them legally)
- Receipts showing purchases were for your parents' needs
- Any prior written evidence or communication from your parents
- Evidence or statements addressing the suicide threat claim
- A list of witnesses who can attest to your behavior and role in caring for your parents
Would you like more detailed guidance on how to prepare any of these items?
Yes
****, here are some detailed steps to prepare your documents and evidence:
- Written Statements: If you can't contact your parents directly, try to get statements from neighbors, caregivers, or others who know the situation.
- Receipts: Organize receipts and highlight purchases for your parents.
- Prior Communication: Gather any prior emails, texts, or letters from your parents about using the EBT card.
- Suicide Threat: Collect statements from mental health professionals or friends who can confirm your mental state.
- Witness List: Prepare a list of people who can testify about your behavior and caregiving role.
Would you like help with specific wording or any other aspect of your preparation?
- Written Statements: If you can't contact your parents directly, try to get statements from neighbors, caregivers, or others who know the situation.
- Receipts: Organize receipts and highlight purchases for your parents.
- Prior Communication: Gather any prior emails, texts, or letters from your parents about using the EBT card.
- Suicide Threat: Collect statements from mental health professionals or friends who can confirm your mental state.
- Witness List: Prepare a list of people who can testify about your behavior and caregiving role.
Would you like help with specific wording or any other aspect of your preparation?
Yes
****, here’s how to prepare each item:
- Written Statements: Ask neighbors, caregivers, or friends to write and sign statements about your caregiving role and permission to use the EBT card.
- Receipts: Arrange receipts chronologically and highlight items bought for your parents.
- Prior Communication: Print any emails, texts, or letters from your parents mentioning the EBT card.
- Suicide Threat: Obtain statements from mental health professionals or friends confirming your stable mental state.
- Witness List: List names, contact information, and a brief description of what each witness can testify to.
Would you like sample templates for these statements or any additional assistance?
- Written Statements: Ask neighbors, caregivers, or friends to write and sign statements about your caregiving role and permission to use the EBT card.
- Receipts: Arrange receipts chronologically and highlight items bought for your parents.
- Prior Communication: Print any emails, texts, or letters from your parents mentioning the EBT card.
- Suicide Threat: Obtain statements from mental health professionals or friends confirming your stable mental state.
- Witness List: List names, contact information, and a brief description of what each witness can testify to.
Would you like sample templates for these statements or any additional assistance?
Yes
****, here are some sample templates to help you prepare your documents:
- Written Statements:
```
[Date]
To Whom It May Concern,
I, [Name], confirm that **** has been taking care of his parents and has their permission to use their EBT card for purchasing groceries. I have witnessed this on multiple occasions.
Sincerely,
[Name]
[Signature]
```
- Receipts:
- Highlight relevant purchases and organize them by date.
- Prior Communication:
- Print and highlight any messages from your parents discussing the use of the EBT card.
- Suicide Threat:
```
[Date]
To Whom It May Concern,
I, [Name], can confirm that **** has not shown any signs of suicidal behavior and has been in a stable mental state. I have known **** for [duration] and have closely observed his behavior.
Sincerely,
[Name]
[Signature]
```
- Witness List:
```
Witness Name: [Name]
Contact Information: [Phone/Email]
Testimony: [Brief description of what they can testify about]
```
Wouldyou need any more templates or assistance with a specific part of your preparation?
- Written Statements:
```
[Date]
To Whom It May Concern,
I, [Name], confirm that **** has been taking care of his parents and has their permission to use their EBT card for purchasing groceries. I have witnessed this on multiple occasions.
Sincerely,
[Name]
[Signature]
```
- Receipts:
- Highlight relevant purchases and organize them by date.
- Prior Communication:
- Print and highlight any messages from your parents discussing the use of the EBT card.
- Suicide Threat:
```
[Date]
To Whom It May Concern,
I, [Name], can confirm that **** has not shown any signs of suicidal behavior and has been in a stable mental state. I have known **** for [duration] and have closely observed his behavior.
Sincerely,
[Name]
[Signature]
```
- Witness List:
```
Witness Name: [Name]
Contact Information: [Phone/Email]
Testimony: [Brief description of what they can testify about]
```
Wouldyou need any more templates or assistance with a specific part of your preparation?
Yes in a little while, i need a break. Ty
****, take your time and reach out when you're ready. If you need any more templates or specific assistance, I'll be here to help. Good luck with your preparation!
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