Confronting Narcissist Court Tactics

Summary

In family law cases involving narcissists, focus on factual evidence and documentation. If a judge appears biased, consider requesting a different judge or appealing the decision. Reasonable requests for information should relate directly to the case, while unreasonable ones may be intended to harass. Theres no set number of motions to compel before seeking sanctions, but document non-compliance. You can request an invoice if the narcissists lawyer is paid from your estate portion. Lawyers may represent clients without immediate payment due to contingency arrangements, other payment sources, or pro bono work.

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what strategies might a lawyer employ to confront emotional appeal and stall tactics presented by narcissists in court
Hi Shandra! Here are some strategies that a lawyer might use:
- Stick to Facts: Focus on factual evidence and documentation.
- Stay Calm: Remain composed and avoid emotional reactions.
- Seek Court Orders: Request specific orders to prevent stalling.
- Use Expert Witnesses: Present expert testimony to counter emotional manipulation.
Is this for a specific type of case, like family law or another area?
how do you address these tactics when they ignore court orders
Hi Shandra! If someone is ignoring court orders, here are some steps that can be taken:
- Document Violations: Keep detailed records of every instance where the court order is violated.
- File a Motion for Contempt: Request the court to hold the violator in contempt, which can result in fines or other penalties.
- Seek Legal Enforcement: Ask the court to enforce the order through legal means, such as fines or even jail time.
Is this related to a family law case, or another type of legal issue?
what if the judge feels extremely sympathetic towards the narsissist
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Hi Shandra! If a judge appears to be sympathetic towards the narcissist, your lawyer can:
- Request a different judge if bias is evident.
- Appeal the decision if there are grounds.
- Focus on presenting objective evidence and facts.
Is this situation part of a family law case?
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Hi Shandra! In family law cases involving narcissists, it's essential to stick to facts and document everything meticulously. If the judge seems biased, your lawyer can request a different judge or appeal the decision.
Would you like any specific advice on dealing with this in your family law case?
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Hi Shandra! Here's specific advice for dealing with a potentially biased judge in your family law case:
- Document Everything: Meticulously record all interactions and incidents.
- Request a Guardian ad Litem: Advocate for your child's best interests.
- Present Objective Evidence: Focus on concrete, unbiased evidence.
If you have any more specific questions or need further assistance, feel free to ask!
the narcissist has been making demands for information on closed matters regarding non assets presumably to create contention and a narrative that paints them favorably. What constitutes a reasonable request to comply with vs an unreasonable one designed to be weaponized later
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Hi Shandra! In family law cases, a reasonable request for information usually pertains to matters directly affecting the case or necessary for the welfare of any involved children. Here are some key points:
- Reasonable Requests:
- Information related directly to shared assets or debts.
- Details necessary for child custody or support arrangements.
- Updates on significant life changes affecting the case.
- Unreasonable Requests:
- Information on unrelated or settled matters.
- Requests intended to harass or overburden.
- Demands for personal information not pertinent to the case.
Would you like any further details on handling these requests?
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Hi Shandra! Here are some details on handling reasonable vs unreasonable requests:
- Reasonable Requests:
- Information about shared assets or debts.
- Details necessary for child custody or support.
- Updates on significant life changes.
- Unreasonable Requests:
- Information on unrelated or settled matters.
- Harassing or burdensome demands.
- Personal information not pertinent to the case.
Would you like more specific advice on how to respond to these requests?
how many motions to compel should you file before asking for sanctions
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Hi Shandra! Generally, there's no fixed number of motions to compel before asking for sanctions. However, if repeated violations occur, you can:
- Document each ignored motion.
- Show a pattern of non-compliance.
- Consult with your lawyer about filing for sanctions after multiple ignored orders.
Would you like more detailed guidance on this?
the lawyer representing the narcissist has not ever shared an invoce in the 2 years they have been representing them. THeir pay comes partially from my portion of the estate. Can I request an invoice?
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Hi Shandra! Yes, you can request an invoice from the lawyer representing the narcissist, especially if their pay is coming from your portion of the estate. It is your right to know how the funds are being used.
Would you like more detailed information on how to request this invoice formally?
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Would you like to be connected to local lawyers who can better assist you with your case?
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Hi Shandra! To formally request an invoice, you can write a letter to the lawyer or the court. Ensure you document your request and keep a copy for your records. If the lawyer refuses, you may need to involve the court to compel them to provide one.
why would this lawyer represent the narcissist and not charge them for anything for 2 years?
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Hi Shandra! There could be several reasons why a lawyer might represent the narcissist without charging them for two years:
- They may have a contingency fee arrangement, getting paid only if they win or recover funds.
- The lawyer could be receiving payments from other sources.
- They might be offering pro bono services for personal or strategic reasons.
Would you like any specific advice on handling this situation?