Harassment Restraining Order Connecticut

Summary

The user is experiencing harassment from their mothers husband in Connecticut. The harassment includes verbal abuse, physical threats, and the husbands dog attacking the users dog. The user has documented evidence of the harassment, including pictures and recordings. The users mother is also being verbally abused by her husband and is scared of him. The user is considering filing a restraining order against the husband and has sought advice on how to do so. The user was advised to contact the Connecticut Judicial Branch for more information on filing a restraining order.

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Bethel
What is the full name of the state you are residing in? Bethel is a city/town in multiple states.
Bethel ct
What specific incidents of harassment have occurred? Please provide dates and details if possible.
Try to start fights with me blocking my car in being rude to my fiancée having his dog almost attacked us.
What evidence do you have of these incidents? In Connecticut, you can apply for a civil restraining order if you're being harassed. It's important to document all incidents.
I have pictures and just a way he talks to me
What kind of pictures do you have and what do they depict? In Connecticut, evidence like pictures, texts, or emails can be used to support a restraining order application.
I have pictures and just the way he talks to me.
What do the pictures depict and do you have any written or recorded communication where he's being abusive or threatening?
I have pictures of his car blocking me in. I have a video of his dog lunging at my dog and I have recordings of him Calling me And my fiance all these names and saying we're all these things all the time
What is the frequency of these incidents and have you reported them to the local authorities? In Connecticut, frequent harassment can strengthen your case for a restraining order.
I haven't reported it yet but I was going to I just don't want to see his dog be put down on a huge animal lover but I don't know what else to do. At this point, i'm scared to go home
I haven't reported it yet but I was going to I just don't want to see his dog be put down on a huge animal lover but I don't know what else to do. At this point, I'm scared to go home. Because I'm scared that there will be a fight or something happening every single day.
Have you considered reporting the incidents to animal control or a local humane society instead of the police? They might be able to address the issue without putting the dog down.
If I do that, I'll take his animal for 10 days. I like animals too much to see them locked in behind the cell.
Have you considered seeking legal advice about obtaining a restraining order against your mom's husband? In Connecticut, you can apply for a civil restraining order if you're being harassed.
I just want him off the property so everybody can have a normal life
What steps have you taken so far to address this issue?
I've tried talking with him to figure out the situation. He wants nothing to do with me to sit down and talk like a man. So all it does is disrespect the property
Have you considered seeking legal advice about obtaining a restraining order against your mom's husband? In Connecticut, you can apply for a civil restraining order if you're being harassed.
That's why I have tried this to see what I can do.
Have you informed your mother about these incidents and what was her response? In Connecticut, you can apply for a civil restraining order if you're being harassed.
All the time and she scared of him too
All the time and she's scared of him too
What steps has your mother taken to address this issue? In Connecticut, victims of harassment can apply for a civil restraining order.
Nothing
What is the reason your mother has not taken any steps to address this issue?
She is scared of him
What actions does your mother's husband take that make her scared?
The way he talks to her the way he says he'll take everything away from her and verbal abuse
What evidence does your mother have of this verbal abuse? In Connecticut, verbal abuse can be considered a form of harassment and can be grounds for a restraining order.
Calling her a slut saying she should go suck black dicks all this stuff
Calling her a slut and saying she should go suck a dick
Has your mother documented these instances of verbal abuse, such as through recordings or messages?
I believe she has text messages. I don't really talk to her that much because they live together
What is the content of these text messages? In Connecticut, evidence like text messages can be used to support a restraining order application.
Just talking down upon her making her feel like lower than scum
What is the frequency of these abusive messages? In Connecticut, frequent harassment can strengthen your case for a restraining order.
Out of a */* like a *
Have you or your mother ever felt physically threatened by him? In Connecticut, physical threats can be grounds for a restraining order.
Yes he has put hands on me * times
What actions did he take when he put his hands on you? In Connecticut, physical assault is a crime and can be grounds for a restraining order.
I called the cops and he was asked to leave the property
What happened after the police asked him to leave the property? Did he return?
Because the property is under my family's name he moved into our house
Have you considered filing a trespassing complaint against him since the property is under your family's name?
They just asked him to come back in a day or *.
He moved into our family home that's been passed down *,* generations
Is there a way I can get him off my property or no
Is there a way I can get him off of my property or no
The police asked him to leave he came back Two or three days later, we didn't talk Or he disrespects everything that's my property
Did you report his return to the police after they asked him to leave?
They said he can come back in a day or *. He came back, we didn't speak to each other. For about a month, we were cool for a little bit. And that was doing it all over again, and he also threatened to kill me. His exact words were I will take care of you in a very threatening manner
Did you report this threat to the police? In Connecticut, threats to harm or kill someone can be considered a criminal offense and can strengthen your case for a restraining order.
So I've done everything I can do I blocked his number. I blocked everything that he has social media wise. I still have the fear every day when I go home
Have you considered filing a restraining order against him? In Connecticut, you can apply for a civil restraining order if you're being harassed, threatened, or fear for your safety.
That's why I'm trying to figure out my research. But this isn't giving me any information I need.
What specific information are you looking for regarding filing a restraining order in Connecticut?
Is there a number I can call it to talk to somebody
Yes, you can contact the Connecticut Judicial Branch at *-*-*-* for more information on how to file a restraining order.