Domestic Violence Legalities Connecticut

Summary

The user was arrested for disorderly conduct due to domestic violence in Connecticut. She is pregnant and wants to modify a no contact order to allow the defendant, who is the father of the baby, to be involved in the pregnancy. The user is seeking advice on how to file a motion to modify the order, what to expect from the court, and how to ensure her safety and the safety of her unborn child. She has a safety plan in place and is attending counseling through a domestic violence agency. The user is also considering setting conditions for the defendants involvement, such as public meetings only, no physical contact, and communication only about the pregnancy.

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Disorderly conduct due to domestic violence
What state did this incident occur in? Laws regarding disorderly conduct due to domestic violence can vary by location.
CT
In Connecticut, disorderly conduct is considered a Class C misdemeanor. Penalties can include:

- Up to 3 months in jail
- Up to $* in fines

For local court information, visit Connecticut Judicial Branch website.
But I didn’t get those penalties
What penalties were you given for the disorderly conduct due to domestic violence charge in Connecticut?
I wasn’t given sny
What actions were taken by the authorities after your arrest for disorderly conduct due to domestic violence in Connecticut?
Court
What is the date and time of your court hearing? In Connecticut, you can find your nearest court and its contact details on the Connecticut Judicial Branch website.
Can the court take your word?
What evidence do you have to support your claim in court? In general, courts consider all evidence, including testimonies, but the weight given to each piece varies.
Will the court contact my medical facility to confirm my pregnancy?
What is the relevance of your pregnancy to the case? In general, courts can request medical records with a subpoena if it's pertinent to the case.
I am pregnant
How does your pregnancy relate to the disorderly conduct due to domestic violence charge?
Because I have a no contact order with the defendant whom I want involved in the pregnancy
What is the nature of the no contact order and how does it affect your desire for the defendant to be involved in the pregnancy?
It is a full no contact order and I would want to modify it for the defendant to be involved
What is the reason for the no contact order and why do you want it modified now?
The no contact order was set from the judge due to our dispute
What are the terms of the no contact order and why do you believe it should be modified for the defendant to be involved in your pregnancy?
What terms?
By "terms," I mean the specific conditions or restrictions outlined in the no contact order. Can you share those details?
Cannot email, text, call, or have physical contact
What is your relationship with the defendant and why do you want them involved in your pregnancy despite the no contact order?
The defendant is my ex boyfriend
What is the reason you want your ex-boyfriend, the defendant, to be involved in your pregnancy despite the no contact order?
Because the defendant is the father
What steps have you taken or plan to take to request a modification of the no contact order?
What are my options and steps?
To modify a no contact order in Connecticut, you may need to:

- Contact your attorney or public defender
- File a motion in court
- Attend a hearing

Please consult with a legal professional for advice.
What would filing a motion require me to do?
Filing a motion generally requires you to:

- Draft a legal document stating your request
- Submit it to the court
- Serve a copy to the other party involved

Please consult with a legal professional for specific steps.
How will it be modified?
The modification of a no contact order depends on the judge's decision after reviewing your motion and considering factors like the nature of the original offense, your safety, and the best interest of the child.
How likely will it work in my favor?
The likelihood of a no contact order modification working in your favor depends on various factors such as the judge's discretion, the nature of the original offense, your safety, and the best interest of the child.
The nature of the offense was not good
What specific factors about the nature of the offense do you believe might impact the judge's decision to modify the no contact order?
Choking, blood
What evidence do you have to support these allegations of violence? It's important to note that the court will consider the severity of the violence when deciding on a no contact order modification.
O do
What type of evidence do you have to support these allegations of violence?
Just a statement
What is the content of your statement and have you shared it with your attorney or public defender?
That I was choked and resulted in hair pulling and domestic violence
What steps have you taken to ensure your safety and the safety of your unborn child?
I found out I was pregnant after the dispute
What steps have you taken since finding out about your pregnancy to ensure your safety and the safety of your unborn child?
counseling and support hroup
What type of counseling and support group are you attending, and how has it been beneficial for you?
Counseling through domestic violence agency
How has the counseling through the domestic violence agency been helpful in your situation?
Helping me mentally and emotionally process what I went through
That's great to hear. Have you considered discussing your situation with your counselor and seeking their advice on the no contact order modification?
Yes
What was their advice regarding the modification of the no contact order?
That ultimately, I can only make the best situation for myself
What steps are you planning to take to ensure the best situation for yourself and your unborn child?
Mentally and emotionally I need support from the defendant who is the father of the baby. With that being said, I want him involved during this profess
What steps have you taken or are planning to take to ensure the defendant's involvement is safe and beneficial for you and your unborn child?
I haven’t
What is your plan to ensure your safety if the no contact order is modified and the defendant becomes involved in your life again?
I have a safety plan
What does your safety plan entail?
Packed necessities
What other measures are included in your safety plan besides packing necessities?
Emergency contacts
What are the details of your emergency contacts and how are they prepared to assist you in case of an emergency?
Sharing locations with them
What other safety measures have you put in place apart from packing necessities and having emergency contacts?
That is it
What steps are you planning to take to ensure the defendant's involvement is safe and beneficial for you and your unborn child?
What?
What measures are you considering to ensure that the defendant's involvement doesn't lead to any harm or distress to you or your unborn child?
Being honest
What specific actions or behaviors are you expecting from the defendant to ensure a safe and supportive environment for you and your unborn child?
Emotional and mental support. Financial support and housing support
What steps are you planning to take to ensure that the defendant provides the emotional, mental, financial, and housing support you need?
Speak with him
What is your plan for communication with the defendant to discuss these needs and expectations?
I’m not sure
What concerns do you have about communicating with the defendant regarding your needs and expectations?
Might not understand
What steps can you take to ensure your communication is clear and your needs are understood by the defendant?
Im
What specific points do you plan to discuss with the defendant to ensure he understands your needs and expectations?
not sure
What kind of support or advice are you seeking to help you communicate your needs and expectations to the defendant?
Understanding
What steps have you taken to ensure that the defendant understands your needs and expectations for emotional, mental, financial, and housing support?
I haven’t
What is your plan to communicate your needs and expectations to the defendant?
That this is */* and we must work for our future baby
What steps are you planning to take to ensure that the defendant understands and respects the */* responsibility for your future baby?
We may not agree on everything but to put everything to the side and work together
What steps are you planning to take to ensure that disagreements do not escalate into conflicts that could potentially harm you or your unborn child?
boundaries
What specific boundaries are you planning to set with the defendant to ensure a safe and supportive environment for you and your unborn child?
Staying quiet, removing myself from environment
What steps are you taking to ensure that you can safely remove yourself from the environment if necessary?
Not sure
What resources or support systems do you have in place to help you safely remove yourself from a potentially harmful environment?
dialing emergency services
What is your plan for when and how to dial emergency services if you find yourself in a potentially harmful situation?
explain situo
What exactly happened during the incident that led to your arrest for disorderly conduct due to domestic violence?
Heated argument that stemmed from previous days. Lead into defendant putting his hands on me from a verbal argument
What actions did the defendant take during this incident that led to physical contact?
Smacking me across the face
What actions did you take immediately after the incident? Did you report it to the police or seek medical attention?
i called the police
What happened after you called the police?
We were both arrested and summoned to court the next day.
What was the outcome of the court hearing?
Full protective order of no contact.
What steps have you taken since the full protective order of no contact was issued?
Nothinf
What is your plan moving forward regarding the no contact order and your desire for the defendant to be involved in your pregnancy?
file a motion
What specific changes are you seeking in the no contact order through your motion?
what kind of change?
Are you seeking to allow certain types of contact with the defendant, such as phone calls, emails, or in-person meetings?
phone calls/text and in person meetings
What steps have you taken or are planning to take to ensure these phone calls, texts, and in-person meetings are safe and beneficial for you and your unborn child?
reporting anything that is not okau
What measures will you take to report anything that is not okay during your interactions with the defendant?
give me some measures
Some measures could include:

- Documenting all interactions
- Having a trusted person present during meetings
- Using a safe location for meetings
- Setting clear boundaries and expectations.
yes
What is your plan to implement these measures during your interactions with the defendant?
establish them on the first meet
if granted
What specific conditions or rules do you plan to establish during your first meeting with the defendant if the no contact order is modified?
provide me
with some conditions or rules
Some conditions or rules could include:

- Public meetings only
- No physical contact
- Communication only about the pregnancy
- No derogatory or abusive language
- Immediate termination of contact if any rule is broken.
yes
What is your plan to communicate these conditions or rules to the defendant?
write them down
You can write down the conditions and present them to the defendant during your first meeting. It's also advisable to have a third party present during this discussion for your safety.
yes
What is your plan if the defendant does not agree to or follow these conditions or rules?
i’m not sure
what do i do?
If the defendant doesn't agree or follow the conditions, you may need to report this to your attorney or the court. It's important to prioritize your safety and the safety of your unborn child.
yes
okey-dokey
What is your plan to ensure your safety and the safety of your unborn child if the defendant does not agree to or follow the conditions or rules?
report
yes
What is your plan for reporting any violations of the conditions or rules by the defendant?
speak to authority
Who is the authority you plan to report to in case of any violations of the conditions or rules by the defendant?
police or court
What is the contact information for your local police department and court in Connecticut?
not sure
i have it
What is your plan to ensure your safety and the safety of your unborn child if the defendant does not agree to or follow the conditions or rules?