Custody Dispute Sexual Coercion

Summary

The user is facing a custody dispute with her sons father, who has been sexually coercive. She has not reported these incidents to the police or sought legal representation due to financial constraints. She was advised to report the incidents to the police, seek legal advice, and consider applying for a Protection From Abuse order in Pennsylvania. This order can also include provisions to protect her child.

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my sons dad has been threatening to take me to court for custody of my son but i am really uncomfortable around him because he would pressure me into doing sexual things with him. how do i protect my son and i from him
****, have you documented any of these incidents or reported them to the police?

General Information:
- In many states, sexual coercion can be grounds for a restraining order.
- Contact your local court for more information.
every time i would confront him he would try to deny it
It's important to report these incidents to the police. This can provide evidence if a custody dispute arises.
i brushed it off but then i found out i was pregnant my son is a year and a half and he now is trying to get custody of him. he lies and makes up excuses for when he is usually suppose to see him
Have you sought legal advice or representation regarding this custody dispute?

General Information:
- Courts usually favor the best interest of the child.
- Consider contacting a local family law attorney.
no. i haven’t been able to afford to and i am scared
Are you aware of any free legal aid services in your area? They can provide you with legal advice and representation.
i do not qualify because i make too much money
What state are you located in? There might be different rules for legal aid eligibility based on income in different states.
pa
What is the nature of the threats he has been making?

General Information:
- In Pennsylvania, you can apply for a Protection From Abuse order.
- Contact your local court: Philadelphia Family Court, * Arch St, Philadelphia, PA *, (*) *-*.
he kept asking me to have sex with him when i didn’t want to. told me that i just don’t want to isn’t a good enough reason. wanted to break up with me until i agreed to do sexual favors to him
Have you reported these incidents of sexual coercion to the police? It's crucial to have these incidents documented.
no… i didn’t think i would have to talk to him ever again until i got pregnant
It's important to report these incidents to the police. This can provide evidence in your custody case and potentially lead to a Protection From Abuse order.
but would that protect my son too?
Yes, a Protection From Abuse order can also include provisions to protect your child. It's crucial to discuss this with your local court or a legal professional.