Divorce Preparation Leaving Home

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The user, based in Indiana, is considering leaving his marital home before initiating a divorce. He has two children and shared assets with his spouse. He has no prenuptial or postnuptial agreements and earns more than his spouse. He is seeking joint custody and has documented instances of his spouses disruptive behavior. He has an appointment with a lawyer and anticipates a court fight over asset division.

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I am going to get a divorce should i leave the house in tell i see a lawyer
What state are you located in, ****? This will help me provide the most accurate information regarding your situation.
Indiana
Do you have children or any shared assets with your spouse? In Indiana, leaving the marital home can potentially impact custody and property division.
Yes
What is the age of your children and what kind of shared assets do you have?

In Indiana:
- Leaving the house can affect custody decisions.
- Property division is done equitably, not equally.
* and *. We have a house and vehicles
Do you have any prenuptial or postnuptial agreements in place? In Indiana, these can significantly influence asset division during a divorce.
No
What is your financial situation compared to your spouse's?

In Indiana:
- Financial disparity can influence alimony decisions.
- Marion County Superior Court handles divorce cases. Contact: (*) *-*.
I make double what see makes
What is the nature of your job and your spouse's job? This can influence alimony decisions. In Indiana, the court considers the earning capacity of both parties.
I am a mechanic she works a factory job
What is the nature of your relationship with your children? This can influence custody decisions. In Indiana, the court considers the best interests of the child.
Good
What is your preferred custody arrangement for your children?
Joint custody
What is your plan for sharing time and responsibilities with your children under joint custody?
We will take turns on weekends and after school
What is your spouse's opinion on this joint custody arrangement?
Not sure at this time
What is the nature of your relationship with your spouse currently?
Not good
What is the main reason for your divorce? This can affect the court's decision on custody and property division.
I can handle her constant agreements and she is calling my work tying to get me fired
Is your employer aware of the situation and have they taken any action against you due to these calls?
No at this time i have been able to avoid it by getting to her calls
Have you documented these incidents of your spouse trying to interfere with your employment? This could be relevant in your divorce proceedings.
Yes i my personal phone i have all her text
What kind of messages are in these texts? This could be relevant in your divorce proceedings. In Indiana, evidence of harassment can impact the outcome of a divorce case.
A lot some saying how she is going to come there
Do you have any restraining orders or protective measures in place against your spouse?
Not at this time i am still staying in the house with her
Do you feel safe in your current living situation?
Yes at this time
Do you have any evidence of your spouse's disruptive behavior towards your work or personal life that could be presented in court?
Text msg and other people as witness
What is the nature of the disruptive behavior your spouse is exhibiting towards your work or personal life?
She is emotionally unstable and a severe jealousy problem
Have you considered seeking a restraining order or protective order due to your spouse's disruptive behavior?
No i have not
Considering your situation, have you sought any legal advice or representation yet?
Yes i have a appointment oct *
What is the name of the lawyer or law firm you have an appointment with on October 11th?
J rick out of rochester
What kind of legal advice are you seeking from J Rick?
Divorce
What is your plan regarding the division of assets, specifically the house and vehicles?
That is what i need to talk to the lawer become i believe she will fight me on anything
It will be a court fight
What is your strategy for this court fight? Are you prepared with all the necessary documents and evidence?
I dont have one at this time
What steps have you taken so far to prepare for the court proceedings?
Just made the appointment with the lawer today
What is the name of the court where you'll be filing your divorce?
Fulton County
What is the full name of your spouse? This is necessary for filing the divorce papers. In Indiana, Fulton County Superior Court handles divorce cases. Contact: (*) *-*.