Summary
It is not legal for an ex-partner to keep your belongings or pet without permission. In Alaska, document your requests, file a police report if necessary, and consider small claims court for item recovery. You can also request a law enforcement escort, known as a civil standby, to retrieve your belongings. Withholding mail is a federal offense; report it to the post office and postal inspectors. If a cellphone was delivered to your exs address, document your request for its return and consider legal action if needed.Full Conversation
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If your ex-boyfriend is refusing to return your belongings after you've requested them, you might need to take further action. Here are some steps:
- Document your request: Keep a record of your requests for your belongings.
- File a police report: If he continues to refuse, you can report the items as stolen.
- Small claims court: You could file a case for the value of your items.
Would you like more information on how to file a small claims case in Washington?
Im actually located in Anchorage, Alaska
Thanks for letting me know you're in Anchorage, Alaska. The information still generally applies, but here are specific steps for Anchorage:
- Document your request for your belongings.
- File a police report if he refuses to return them.
- Consider filing a small claims case.
Would you like more details on how to file a small claims case in Alaska?
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To file a small claims case in Alaska, follow these steps:
- Fill out the claim form: You can get these from the court or online.
- File the claim: Submit your completed form to the local small claims court.
- Serve the defendant: Ensure your ex-boyfriend receives a copy of the claim.
Would you like more details about any of these steps?
I also would like to know if hes allowed to claim my puppy and not return her to me?
In Washington, pets are generally considered personal property. If the puppy was purchased by you or is legally in your name, he does not have the right to keep her. You can take similar steps as with your other belongings:
- Document your ownership of the puppy.
- Request the puppy back in writing.
- If he refuses, consider filing a police report or a small claims case.
Do you need guidance on any of these steps?
Am i able to have someone escort me to retrieve my belongings?
Yes, you can request a law enforcement officer to escort you to retrieve your belongings. This is often referred to as a "civil standby." Contact your local police department to arrange this.
Do you need any more guidance on how to request a civil standby?
What if my exboyfriend is not letting me get my mail from his mailbox?
If your ex-boyfriend is withholding your mail, this is a federal offense under U.S. law. Here are the steps you can take:
- Notify your local post office about the issue.
- Report the matter to the United States Postal Inspection Service.
- Consider redirecting your mail to a new address.
Would you like more information on how to redirect your mail or report the issue?
A cellphone i ordered was just delivered to my now ex-boyfriends house and he wont let me get it.
Your ex-boyfriend withholding your cellphone is not legal. Here are some steps you can take:
- Document your request: Keep a record of your requests for the cellphone.
- File a police report: Report the item as stolen.
- Civil standby: Request a law enforcement officer to escort you when you retrieve your belongings.
Would you like more details on any of these steps?