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In Georgia, victims can express their wishes to prosecutors, but the decision to drop charges is ultimately up to the prosecutor. Consider contacting the prosecutors office to express your views, writing a letter explaining the situation, and seeking legal counsel for guidance. During meetings, be honest and clear, express your perspective, provide context, and maintain a respectful tone. Acknowledge any Temporary Protective Orders (TPO) and highlight reconciliation efforts, counseling, and financial stability. Violating a TPO can be seen negatively, but it may also show an attempt at reconciliation.Full Conversation
I have a teams meeting with the procecutor on Wednesday morning. How should i best go about explaining my situation in a way that conveys that im not just another DV victim trying to cover for my husband, our situation is different
When speaking with the prosecutor, consider these points:
- Be Honest and Clear: Explain the situation factually, emphasizing that it was verbal and not physical.
- Express Your Perspective: Share how this differs from typical DV cases and your reasons for wanting the charges dropped.
- Provide Context: Mention any mitigating circumstances or misunderstandings.
- Stay Calm and Respectful: Maintain a respectful tone throughout.
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Yes. I had a TPO at the time that i have since removed. But i had let him come back home and we were living together and he was coming to all of our kids activities. So he had no way of knowing that when we got into the argument that i was going to call the police
Here are some additional tips to help you during your meeting with the prosecutor:
- Acknowledge the TPO: Clearly explain the circumstances around the TPO, its removal, and your decision to reconcile.
- Focus on Intentions: Highlight your intentions in calling the police and how they differed from typical DV situations.
- Involve Children’s Well-being: If applicable, mention how the situation affects your family and children positively if charges are dropped.
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Does the fact that i wasn't following the TPO help or hurt the situation
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The fact that you were not following the Temporary Protective Order (TPO) can be a double-edged sword.
- Potentially Hurtful: Violating a TPO can be seen negatively, as it undermines the order's purpose.
- Potentially Helpful: It shows an attempt at reconciliation, which might support your argument for dropping charges.
Would you like further guidance on how to approach this aspect with the prosecutor?
Yes
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When discussing the TPO with the prosecutor, consider these approaches:
- Acknowledge Responsibility: Admit any misunderstanding or lapse in judgment regarding the TPO.
- Reconciliation Efforts: Emphasize your genuine efforts to reconcile and rebuild the relationship.
- Cooperation with Legal Process: Assure the prosecutor of your willingness to cooperate fully.
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He has a job to go back to. We have counciling services in place i have been in contact with his therapist. I dont want to lose our house without his income we will be in trouble as well. Its not just that, but its part of it
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It sounds like you're in a challenging situation, and it's great that you're taking proactive steps to address it. When discussing with the prosecutor, consider highlighting the following:
- Counseling and Support: Mention the counseling services in place and the therapist's involvement as part of your reconciliation efforts.
- Financial Stability: Explain the financial impact on your family if charges aren't dropped, emphasizing the importance of his job.
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