Childhood Behavior Clarification

Summary

The incident described seems more like inappropriate childhood behavior rather than assault, given the context and ages involved. If it continues to cause distress, consider speaking with a counselor or therapist. For those unable to afford therapy, practices like mindfulness, journaling, and seeking support from friends or family can be beneficial. Engaging in prayer and faith can also provide comfort. If further legal clarification is needed, consulting a legal professional may be helpful.

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I am going to send you two parts to a question so that I can meet the * word
Sure, ****. Please go ahead and send me the first part of your question. I'll do my best to assist you.
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So, I am a 21 year old male but when I was a kid about * maybe * l had this friend from church also male, who is a couple years younger than me. One day were sitting somewhere and he mentioned something about wanting to touch my butt, and he tried to grab it. And then I think I was playing with something and dropped it so I reached down to pick it up and he smacked me like four times rapidly. He seemed to find it amusing. I thought it was kind of weird for a bit but eventually I forgot about it and we remained cool friends. He hasn't acted that way since and this was over a decade ago. I know his grandma said he used to have a problem with seizures as a kid.
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****, from what you've described, it seems like this incident happened a long time ago, and the person involved was a child who might have had medical issues. Given the time that has passed, it's unlikely that this situation would warrant legal action now. If you have any other concerns or questions, feel free to ask!
He still goes to the church but not as often because he works now. Like I said, I hadn't even thought about it until like a month ago when I read an article about a celebrity who had been sexually abused as a kid. And it triggered me for some reason and has been kind of bothering me. I just wanted to know if this was an assault or just inappropriate childhood behavior.
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Hey ****, I'm sorry to hear that this has been bothering you. Although it was a long time ago and the person involved was a child with potential medical issues, such behavior could be considered inappropriate childhood behavior rather than assault. However, if it continues to trouble you, speaking with a counselor might help. If you have any further questions or concerns, feel free to ask!
So based on the story I told you, it’s not sexual assault, abuse, molestation, or rape?
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Hey ****, based on what you described, it seems more like inappropriate childhood behavior rather than sexual assault, abuse, molestation, or rape. However, if it continues to cause you distress, it might be helpful to speak with a counselor or therapist to work through your feelings. If you have any other concerns, feel free to ask.
Okay, good. Because I was kinda worried that I was a victim and it was really bothering me
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Hey ****, it's understandable that such memories can be distressing. It seems like the incident you described falls more into the category of inappropriate childhood behavior rather than a criminal act. It's good to talk about these feelings with a counselor or therapist if they're bothering you. Do you have any other legal concerns or questions?
So even if he didn’t have medical issues would this be considered assault?
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Hey ****, it's understandable that you're seeking clarity on this. The behavior you described, while inappropriate, seems more like childhood behavior rather than criminal assault, especially given the context and the age of the individuals involved. If it's still bothering you, speaking with a counselor could be beneficial. Do you have any other questions about this or another legal issue?
What are things I can do at home if I can’t afford a therapist or counselor. I am a man of faith and have been praying a lot for my mind to be at ease from this
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Hey ****, I understand that seeking professional help can be costly. Here are some things you can do at home:
- Practice mindfulness and meditation.
- Engage in regular physical exercise.
- Keep a journal to express your thoughts and feelings.
- Connect with supportive friends or family members.
- Explore online support groups or forums.
Is there anything else you'd like to ask or discuss?
In prayer good
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Hey ****, turning to faith and prayer can definitely be comforting. Additionally, continuing to use mindfulness, journaling, and talking with supportive friends or family can help. Do you have any other legal questions or concerns on your mind?